HHow to tell your friend with benefits you want to stop having sex with him so he doesn't ask for an exppanation?

[Anonymous]

[chrissykerdock]

i feel that way too he's coming over 3-5 times a week and he promises exclusitivty but i don't love him or even like him... i went with him during the pandemic when you thought everyone was diseased... and i learned a lot about blowjobs from him and gained new styles and techniques but what's the point... and i'm so trained by him not ask questions and to get on my knees... and i often thought how do i stop this... i'm not a prostitute nor do i get paid for this or even get taken ever... plus i don't like him or am i attracted to him... i will say he's funny but that goes so far... and i wouldn't have an idea to tell him but i'm sure i'm not the only one he uses for a cum bucket.

[hot2go2000]

Blowjobs feel amazing!

[chrissykerdock]

@hot2go2000 no wonder he likes them so often... i give them they're kind of relaxing to give

[hot2go2000]

And relaxing after for him too. Very intense near ejaculating for me when I have one.

[hot2go2000]

Pm me

[DizzyDesii]

Its prob best to say from the get go, “we’re only fcking until we find someone we want as a romantic partner” and then just say you found someone lol

[Effably]

By giving a reason. That's honestly the best way. Now keep in mind the reason does not need to be fantastic. It can be as simple as you wanting tp possibly have something different, more serious or alike and as long as you are hooking up that is less likely.

Or heck, you don't feel it anymore. Need some you time. Anything. But basically you give a explanation you're comfortable with when you end things. Knowing why is generally appreciated and does not need to be a big deal.

[MrCommodore]

Easy.. tell him you finally met boyfriend material and no longer need a male friend to service you.

[midnightmoon05]

I have a boyfriend now. Block him.

[SnowedIn]

Just don't go or respond.

[Drumlin2001]

Just tell him it's over. Whole point of friends with benefits is it comes with no strings. You don't need to explain yourself

[es20490446e]

That's the issue with friends with benefits.

[mixedjason]

Have any friends that can take your place? The dude has needs

[Wise4myage]

Perhaps its time to end that relationship?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Just tell them you don't want to do it anymore. You don't owe them an explanation.

[CharlieDMX]

Why don't you have an explanation? Doing things "just because" is a bad sign and you are forgetting the F in friends with benefits

[tallblondejohm]

Ouch