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Hi, new to board. I have a question for you guys. What are some ways your long term girlfriend to turn you on still. photo of me for reference?

Hi, new to board. I have a question for you guys. What are some ways your long term girlfriend to turn you on still.photo of me for reference?
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  • Basically for me you just need to shake things up/spice things up every once in a while. How crazy depends on what you and he are into.

    Could do one of his fantasy's.

    Could be as simple as a new position or a sex new outfit... that you meet him at the door in.

    You can take that one step further if he has his own office at work, go there with that on under a trench coat. Or If he has no office... on his lunch break do it in the car.

    Romantic overnight at a nice hotel, maybe 2 person bubble bath... sex on the balcony.

    BJ in a public place where you could get caught might excite him... I enjoy doing things in public with my girls. FOr example my one girl would wear a spring dress no panties and would sit on me so it looks like we were just cuddling but people didn't realize she was riding me.

    • Thank you! I’ve been going every which way in new and more intense seduction techniques. I apologize in advance for the TMI - but I give him head whenever and wherever and as randomly as ever. In the kitchen before work, in the hallway, couch, car, and I don’t ask, I just do. He really likes that, and most everything I do is because I am much more comfortable with my sexuality so trying new things never quite phased me in terms of embarrassment, I think he ultimately shy’s away out of fear of saying or doing something embarrassing. I respect that, so I don’t take it as far unless he says he wants to, because being pushy is really not cool in my opinion. But hopefully we warms up, and would want to see that part of me finally.

  • It's cliche but keep things new & interesting & fun. Plan weekend outings together or a weekend trip for a special occasion. Find things he enjoys like a massage & surprise him with it. Don't get too comfortable at home & end up bumming it in sweats every night. Buy some lingerie you'll feel confident in. There's a million things... what general interests/hobbies does he have?

Most Helpful Girl

  • She got Kindness , Smart , a Sense Of Humor very important.

    • Agreed 🖤🖤

    • Ever be with someone no sense of humor it’s like watch golf on tv.

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  • Wow, you have some intensely gorgeous eyes!

    • Thank you 🙂 my best feature I think lol

    • Physical feature at least

    • They really stand out. I have blue eyes, but they are dark blue. Yours are like an ice blue or a baby blue. Very attractive; draws me to them. 😍

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  • The key I believe is to never develope a routine. Of course doing the things he likes with enthusiasm is great, but even the things he likes can become boring. Next, I've found that a kama sutra book keeps things interesting, because it provides incentive to be unique. And lastly, watch porn with him, porn that you like one day, and then that he likes another.

  • WOW REALLY REALLY SMOKING ASS NICE

  • Do something autoerotic in front of him. Very hot!

  • Looks only make the initial attraction for me. A good personality is what makes a relationship last for the long term.

    • I concur. Personality means more to me. Attractive is never and will never be as dense as the life of the person you’re discovering through a relationship. I should have rephrased my question I think, he adores my wit and how quick to respond in some comedic fashion to situations, and we are close in everything and every aspect of that - we are in perfect sync and have been for years. I am very certain we are both extremely happy in that regard, the only thing that comes up is the lack of intimacy in his efforts - I in no way blame him or accuse, I support him and will do whatever it takes, I've tried all sorts of new ways to seduce him. I think I just have to find his special thing, and I was hoping to find men here who may have more specific desires, however raunchy they may be. I am a bookworm, I dedicate a lot of my time and energy to my studies and work. But he comes first, and I know after relationships have formed in due time the idea of foreplay and sex isn’t as enticing.

    • Why not speak to him about what he's really into? You could ask a dozen guys here yet he may not be into any the things those dozen guys say. The best advice I can give is to talk things through with him and as you repeat that you don't blame him for not being that intimate, he may loosen up.

    • Absolutely, our line of communication is not in any way negative nor nonexistent. If anything it’s why we’ve gotten this far, and have spoken about this in some conversations. His thing is that he isn’t good at assertiveness and embarrassed to act like he’s “dominant” so to speak. And I totally respect that, I did say I’d look up some ways to surprise him and maybe something will click, so I ended up on this app and I think I have some things I want to try now that I’ve gotten opinions. Thank you so much for your advice again, sincerely. 🙏🏼

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  • Somehow she treating me like thebging of the castle turned me on. Also most of the white knights here are to be taken with a grain of salt.

  • Any man who is not turned on by you is gay.

    • Lol thank you so much 🖤

  • I am simply turned on by the intimacy.

  • You shouldn't have any problems you turn me on with your photo. No mind getting up close and personal...

  • Damn.. Even with jerseys you would look awesome.

    • The only advice I can give you is, to hell with monotony!!! Both of you should always contribute to new things, even if its related to spice up things.

    • I like you!!! Haha - great suggestion and I can tell you also have a witty sense of humor.

    • Gracias.. :)

  • Just take her clothes off and I am ready to go lol or text me a pic

  • Dammn 😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • Anal, bdsm, fingering herself infront of me, there are tons of ways, but i find the most effective way is to always wear something revealing, and have seld confidence, underwear from vicrorias secret

  • Teasing throughout the day, texting can be great for this. Shopping together, having her model for me later. I have had women like it when I do "man work" as bad as it sounds.

    • You are incredibly fucking sexy!! Just saying.

  • Take anitiative sometimes like the old days!

    • Exactly what I’ve done for a while now! Taking initiative was never an issue for me, I like to just as much as any guy would. Thanks for the advice still though 🖤

    • That's awesome! I used to hate bothering my ex wife for sex. I felt like I was harassing her. Finally I gave up.

    • How long you been in that relationship?

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  • Well if she looked like you do then, I don't know why that would even be a question. I would consider role play if that hasn't happened.

  • Omg you are beautiful. Random texts that tell him your thinking of him. Naughty pics?

    • Thank you 🖤 so much. I have but the “naughty pics” are mostly pg-13 so I think I’ll have to dig deeper into that and figure out how to go about that. We are both inclined to texting each other all the time. I feel like I may have misconstrued a bit, our relationship is absolutely amazing, and he adores me as I do him. The only thing, one little thing, is that he is lacking in sex and has been. I support him regardless because he’s my man - I wouldn’t just leave him for something that may not even be his fault, who knows, maybe he’s just low in libido! Either way, all suggestions are appreciated, thanks again 🖤

    • Add me and so I can pm u

  • U are beautifull enough,!!

    • You’re very kind, thank you, it’s nice to feel good when you are stuck in second guessing your favorability towards men. So thank you 🖤

    • You are welcome. Never doubt urself, there is no reason 😍

    • Would u follow me? X

  • For both... try and keep the fun and spontaneous in the mix and less like a chore or that we have to..

  • Try new ways to have fun with your guy. Go to new places with him. you can draw attention by being seductive sometime. lol

    • Thank you 🙂 I have been, and will continue to do so knowing it can be a good thing.

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