High Body Count?

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Ladies... say you meet a guy, he's really nice you find him attractive he's funny and flirty and everything seems to be going well. You spend more time getting to know each other and you decided that you really like the guy, he's different. However in the midst of intimate conversation with said guy he reveals to you (in full transparency and vulnerability) that he does in fact have a very high body count. Maybe up to the 20s.. how does this make you feel? Can you continue dating this man? Even if he's given you no reason not to trust him? Or do you see it as risky because he's a player or what not.. I need honest answers

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

I'm thinking it wouldn't matter to someone if they also had an equally, or even more, body count. I've heard it said that with every person you've had sex with, you also have had sex with all the one's they have had sex with. Men and women are made to bond together and become one flesh. Is it any surprise that not many these days can remain married for the long haul when they were used to banging the whole team? You can't become one flesh when you have 20 different people that you could never bod with.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

I don’t care. My body count is 26, my girl is higher than that and my first boyfriend is in his low 20s

SueShe · Answer

Of course not.

I have my dignity and self esteem and I am not a hoe. I know that I would just be another number on his list and that the probability for me to be infected with STD/STI is greater than 99%.

I would never accept that deal just for a few pathetic muscular contractions and spasms. He can shove his funny personality where I think and go take a hike.

somedaysinger1227 · Answer

Early twenties... okay. Higher ones... not so much.
But remember that it's not the body count that matters, it's the personality. Sometimes I meet a guy who I would never have thought I would have liked from the looks of him, but if he's super funny and has an attractive personality then I LOVE him.

Hurlyburly · Answer

I'm not eager on being "just another number". I've never been interested in anything less than long term relationships and someone with a high body count just doesn't sound all that reliable to me in this regard.

Hangry22 · Answer

I wouldn't proceed further with him. Knowing that and imaginging him with all those girls doing such an intimate act is itself a turn off. I wouldn't wanna be one of those girls

iseekpinetrees · Answer

20s isn't a lot. I go by age. If your 21 and ur body could is near 21 okay but if ur 21 and your body count is 35 and up thats a red flag cause if you account for the age when they started having sex to their age thats a small amount of time to gain thatany people. So if it was 16 he lost virginity and by 21 which is only 5 years later had 35 people thats a red flag n he's probably not going to settle.

psychoticanimallover · Answer

I doubt it would ever come up to begin with! That’s personal and no one needs to know.

Julia1998 · Answer

It was never a problem for me

JustRollTheDice · Answer

That he needs to do an std test

Anonymous · Answer

I met this guy a few years ago, we were both virgins and had planned to lose it together but then I moved away and it never happened. We still talked for years and by the time I came back to visit, his bodycount was in the 20s, but they were all just random hookups. I made sure he was clear of STDs and then we still ended up having sex because it didn’t change the way I felt about him.

Anonymous · Answer

if by high body count you mid teens & twenties, lol that's not that bad. pretty normal for guys. anyways i'm cool with that, mine is in that range too so whatever. for higher than that i'm cool with as long as it's not something really bad

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