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High sex drive people, Would you be able to date someone with a low sex drive?

Low sex drive people would you be able to date someone with a high sex drive?
High sex drive people, Would you be able to date someone with a low sex drive?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • My second wife was that way. It took years to get her to enjoy sex as she was a virgin when married and she told me her husband could only go for around 5 minutes.

    The woman who got a quickie from me does not exist. It takes at the very least around a half hour of sucking and fucking to get me to cum.

    Before we divorced, my 2nd wife was one of the best fucks I ever had. And she learned how to suck me better than I showed her. I still think of her from time to time while masturbating.

    This low sex drive usually has something behind it that causes it. I found what was stopping her from enjoying one of the simple joys of being human and turned her into someone I looked having sex with over and over and over. It is all a state of mind and the experiences they have from their past.

  • It just isn't a good mix. I've dated girls that rarely wanted to have sex and also rarely initiated. Which normally I would say that the relationship is a bust, she's just not interested and I'm beating a dead horse. But she liked me around so her drive was just very low. Not to mention the type of birth control she was on also lowered this. So essentially what happened was I would try to initiate sex. She would say she's tired, sore, *insert generic excuse here*, etc. And would always say 'let's do it tomorrow'. Okay, no big deal. Well tomorrow would come around and I would initiate. Same excuses. Rinse and repeat. Then the "Why do you want to have sex all the time" speech comes out. So it's just not a good combo.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend always thought he would have a really low sex drive, cause he never felt that urge to do it (and he was a virgin until is 30's). Well, he said how surprised he is that he actually wants it a lot and often, and that he keeps thinking about it. I guess when you are really connected and in love with someone your sex drive will be high.

  • I dunno. I mean I would love to have someone have a high sex drive as much as me. For the longest time, I've always dated guys with lower sex drives then me. Now I think i deserve someone on the same level. Luckily! My current boyfriend is just as freaky as me. 😏👍🏻

    • Nice , hard to find tht

    • @yanbbo so damn hard! Haha that's why I'm so high off of him. We're just intense for each other.

    • Hmmm now i'm crying i miss someone like you ah , just we have that none

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  • If it was someone with a truly low sex drive and no interest in changing it probably not.
    There's compromise and all that but I can get seriously bitchy and he wouldn't want to deal with me anyway 😂

  • No cause I can’t keep up so at the end he will end up looking for sex with someone else.

    • I am sure you have a healthy high sex drive @Ersacol28 😉

    • @Ersacol28 you have a low sex drive?

    • Well I’ll say medium I can do 2/3 times per week but not every day

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  • It depends upon person mentality. But most of time they don't

  • Of course I don't think there's any rules it's a they have to stay in first gear all their lives maybe they don't know where II secondary is maybe nobody's has taken them there before

  • Nope. Been there done that. Much happier now. I’m answering your first question.

  • I could date someone with any sex drive as long as they were never forceful or pushy when i didn't feel like having sex myself.

    • So you have lower sex-drive then. He with high sex-drive will get maybe frustrated sexually.

  • It would be very difficult.

    • And for me a reason to not date her because I don't want to break her heart.

  • No way jose

  • I don't even know what high sex drive means anymore the way some people use it today lol. I just know I'm up for it daily and if my partner is not that would suck. So it would be better to have someone who also is up for sex daily. I've been with girls who thought they had low sex drive, but when we dated their drive magically spiked. So I don't put much weight on that assuming someone has decent hormonal health.

    If you don't have any medical issues your sex drive is one part biological and one part psychological. Find the person that stimulates the psychological part and you will be very horny.

    • Just like you have, daily sex.

  • not anymore !

    • How come

    • @Mattbowles It would feel for me unwanted, if my girlfriend has no interest in sex beside reproduction at all.

  • No, I won't. I would miss all of it to much.

  • Yes but Sex is important to me so even if she had a low libido or was A-sexual or a lesbian I'd still expect her if she loved me to make an effort to take care of my sexual needs.
    My girlfriend cares so much about me that even when she doesn't want sex or is on her period is more than willing to take care of me one way or the other. An old girlfriend used to be the same because she had a fear of me cheating

    • Lesbians won't take you as a guy in a serious relationship. And believe me, you don't want an asexual that sees sexuality only for reproductive purposes. To less sex! My parents it twice and I only have one brother, 4 years younger than me!

  • I've been in a relationship with a woman who had a much lower sex drive than me! Over time I was becumming more and more sexually frustrated each time she'd turn me down after initiating physical intimacy! I felt rejected which isn't a nice feeling at all so I had enough and left her!

    • Thanks for the upvote 😉

    • Thanks for the MHO 😘

  • I'd be able to date them, but it might not be able to begin a serious relationship/marry them. I'm really not sure.

  • It's so difficult. I've received the "you only want me for sex" speech too often. Something wrong with me for having such a high drive?

    • No your sex drive is what it is and there's nothing wrong with it. You'll learn it changes over time as well. The problem with the "you only want sex" speech is I don't think most men and women really understand the drive that leads to sex. For most women we need to feel loved and connected (emotionally fulfilled) to want to have sex. For guys mostly you want to show all that love and connection you feel in the form of sex. which leads to no sex for anyone because she feels like a piece of meat and he feels rejected. It's a petty 💩 cycle to get stuck in.

    • Yes.

    • Not entirely about the men showing connection and love through only sex, but it certainly plays a part

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  • no, it won´t work. better not get into it to begin with. it may work for some time if you compromise but in the long run the one with the higher drive will get frustrated and the one with the lower drive will be annoyed so it will break at some point anyway.

    • Very true! And I know it very well, not have been with a low sex-drive woman but I never want.

  • I don't know where I fall on the spectrum but I want sex at least once a week otherwise I get sad and start crying.

    • What is the reason is musterbeat not enough to satisfy

    • @rocky143143 I don't like it.

    • Why dont try with girl as lesion it keep u safe some wt from not getting pregnent etc

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  • Nein, i could not. I need my releases often. I'm still young and potent and my gun is still in tact.
    I could only when my sex drive declines and that's when i start getting gray hair.

    • I have some gray hair (see my profile pictures) but my libido is still very high. I feel currently wanted by my distant girlfriend but I surely miss a lot everything in making love.

    • @roland77 good Point! I think if the health is still good you'll keep wanting it 😀

    • Yes, I feel okay about health issues, just under-fed. ;-)

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  • No point in that?

  • Yeah, but it would be kind of a struggle.

    • Struggle, means problems, ending in divorce/departing. It won't work for the one with high sex-drive (gets sexually frustrated) and also for low part (getting annoyed from to much requests).

  • Ya been there and recently ended that. Not because of sex tho, however It's pure torture dating a beautiful woman you can't have fun sex with on the regular. Especially when you have a high sex drive.

    • That is really annoying for sure. And I'm happy my girlfriend has equal high level.

  • No, probably not.

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