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Sexual Health His masturbation habits are making me extremely insecure?
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My boyfriend and I are in our early 20s and we have been together for over 4 years. I recently moved in with him and discovered that he masturbates A LOT. Which is fine, he can do what he wants.. but at the same time, I feel like it means his needs aren't being met by me.. he knows I'll have sex with him anytime he wants. We have sex mostly everyday, at least once. Sometimes twice if he wants. But he masturbates while I'm at work. He knows I like to get creampied with huge loads, but he won't wait for me until I get home. By the time I get home, his loads are barely anything.. He literally masturbates all the time, like when I'm out, when I'm alseep, and even after sex sometimes. It makes me feel like I'm shit at sex and that maybe he just prefers his hand over my vagina. I do anything he asks during sex and I'm pretty enthusiastic about it. Could he just not like sex with me? Maybe my vagina doesn't satisfy him? He watches porn or reads sexy stories online, so I know he's most likely not thinking about sex with me during his masturbating.. what could be wrong with my sex?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 24you could be laying there like a useless bump on a log not doing anything and making him do all the work, you could be boring, your vagina could smell or look ugly, your areolas could be ugly or big, your tits could be ugly looking, he may not like your body fat, he may not like the way your ass and anus and rectum and sphinxter smells, he may think you have bad breath and may not like how your breath smells, he may hate the way you kiss him, he may think your vagina is to hairy and/or smells of piss or pubic sweat,
it could be a variety of different things
You sound amazing, and he sounds like he has something wrong with him.
Could it be that mauve my vagina doesn't satisfy him very well?
If he's not satisfied by you and as willing as you are to make love with him it's not you or your vagina. He has something else going on.
Maybe I'm loose or something?
Or that maybe he doesn't find me very hot?
u r fine it is definitely not a loose vagina. Does he cum every time? If so it is not u!!
He sounds like a loser. If I had someone who wanted sex with me like that I wouldn't let her doubt how much I appreciate her.
@summiter he cums everytime inside me since I'm on broth control but what does it mean if he masturbates Like an hour or two after sex?
He could have a sex addiction and most likely has nothing to do with you.
I'll have sex with him anytime he wants it if I'm at home.. and we only have sex oncenor twice a day. And sometimes he even masturbates an hour or two after sex. Does that sound like he's not being satisfied?
Its sounds like he needs help, and im telling you from personal experience and seeing same situation that even if you made his wildest fantasies come true perfect he would still be doing same thing.
Do you think that maybe he just doesn't find me very attractive?
Sounds to me like he may have an addiction to porn/erotica. My boyfriend is horny a lot too but he doesn't watch porn or anything. And when we have sex he always blows a huge load. Have you talked to him about his excessive masturbating?
Could I just not be satisfying him? Like maybe I don't have a nice body or maybe my pussy isn't very pleasurable?
I don't think that's it at all dear. I think he may have a problem. Have y'all talked about it?
Let him know how it makes you feel.
You need to spice things up and it's got to be you
take your hand and play down in your panties and
say oh wow am I horny and smell your fingers, lick
your fingers see he's got to see this and not meaning
to sound prude but sometimes you need to turn him on