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His penis gets soft when he’s about to go inside of me, help?

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  • He's might be embarrassed or so into you and worried about performing that he loses his erection. He could also be drunk and unable to get it up.
    Have you tried other ways to please each other where he stays hard? For example does he stay hard if you give him a handjob or blowjob?

    • Yeah he when I give him a handjob or a blowjob he stays hard and cums later

    • Can you slip on a condom and keep him hard while giving him a handjob and then put him inside you?

    • I can try that

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  • Assuming he may not be the average of guys with ED which is possible but a Dr needs to verify. I would need little more context. You Do not have to be too TMI but is it all systems go, then moment truth goes limp? Just need little context before I can offer any advice?

    • Right when he puts the condom on he gets limp. He says he had 7 people before me and that it never happened before

    • Thats a rough one with rubbers, ever try to put one on with your mouth? Perhaps kinkyness will overcome the issue? If not some roleplay? Maybe blindfolds? Its some mental block perhaps cause performance issues is my best guess.

    • Those are some good options thank you

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I'm sure it is nerves. Is he a virgin? Maybe get him real close to an orgasm with a handjob and then try sex. Use a condom so he has one less thing to worry about. Does he stay hard during a bj or handjob?

    • He says he’s not a virgin. He does stay hard during bj and handjob. I’ll try what you suggested thank you

  • Try giving him oral beforehand.

  • This seems to be nerves especially if its only when your about to have intercourse. Tell him to relax and lots of encouragement

  • Viagra or stress or many other can be the case

  • ED just get pills problem solved.

  • you must be a huge turn off

    • We have been together for 7 months I don’t think so

    • what has the time got to do with it?

    • If I’m so off putting why is he still with me

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  • slow down and relax. let go, and let nature take it's course.

  • Just suck it hard

  • I also believe this is performance anxiety, plus putting on the condom that "distracts" him. The thing with anxiety like this is, the more you have problems, the more you are anxious, and the more you have problems...

    You need him to relax. Reassure him, tell him it's no big deal. This is important but I don't think that will be enough.

    If you find one thing you can do that will get him hard again, then you're good. Giving him head would probably do the trick. And I bet that if you do it a couple of times, then his confidence will be back and he won't even get soft again.

    The tricky part is putting a condom. As others suggested, try putting it with your mouth. If he gets somewhat soft with the condom, just suck a bit on the condom. Or give him a short handjob. It should help.

  • Start sucking it see if it responds if it does maybe he just needed a little more oral stimulation.

  • He’s a virgin.
    I suggest lots of foreplay
    Get sexually aroused and soaking wet.
    If that doesn’t work, get him a prescription for Viagra.

  • Performance anxiety, suck on the limp dick for a few minutes

    • Chew on it like a gummy worm

    • That will probably hurt

    • While saying Nashahafafaafafafahh

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  • Whisper to him "I PLAY AMONG US " and watch him get hard

  • Viagra can try to help you out.

  • He might have a medical condition that keeps him from getting hard and staying hard.

  • İs he have erection problem?

    • No I can get him hard

    • But does it get hard without your help?

    • Yes when we cuddle

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  • Sounds like performance anxiety. Using viagara or something like that temporarily will allow him to get past it

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