Holding her legs open during sex?

[Anonymous]

When me and my girlfriend are having sex, she tries to close them up and squeeze them shut for some reason, so I wind up holding her legs spread out, she doesn't seem to mind. Is that weird for a guy to do? And is it unusual for girls to try and close their legs?

[hmoniz]

Perfectly normal. When it feel so good and a woman loses control of her body, everything wants to close - including her legs. The benefit for her closing her legs is that she can get a more explosive arosal. The benefit of you holding her legs open is that it puts you in control, and for a woman that is more of a turn on than anything!

[Anonymous]

No it's perfectly normal it just means she's enjoyinng it and her legs/thighs are buckling or caving in because of how good it feels it makes us weak.

[chocolatedragon]

Your dick can cause more friction that stimulated her clit when her legs are closed.

Leave em closed cause you get stimulated just by going in whereas she needs to receive it from a certain angle/position

[openhearted65]

Mate lie on your back and spread your legs wide. Then put a very heavy book on your crotch and start humping. Your hips will cramp within a few humps

[Asker]

Would rather not try it, but you think that's what chick's feel?

[openhearted65]

Yeah mate you can't spread them too far and all women have different flexibility ranges. You can keep them spread for ages as long as you don't go past that point where it feels like you've popped your hip

[Asker]

I told holds them that wide open, just, wide enough for me to fit through, and I might be a bit muscular, but I'm not big, so yah, not that wide

[openhearted65]

Fair enough but maybe too wide for her. I was with a girl many years ago and she could spread to 180 degrees. You cannot explain how tight it pulled her pussy. Anyway what if your gf wraps her legs around your back

[Asker]

She tries too, but she's extremely small, her legs just barely fit around me, but when I thrust they end up at my sides again anyway

[openhearted65]

Ok. Try this. sit her on the edge of the bed or lounge. have her spread her legs as far as she's comfortable and kneel in front but lower your hips so your waist I assume is narrower is as far as she needs to spread. It means entering from a lower position but it also means you can't miss her g=spot. Encourage her to rub her clit during it cause she will need the spread for her hand

[Asker]

Huh, I didn't even think to try that, thanks, but' any ideas on how to get her to rub her clit? She's very... She just doesn't do stuff like that to herself, never has, she finds it repulsive

[openhearted65]

Yeah so common mate. Trust me they all do it under the sheets lights off doors locked. Lucky my longer term relationships have been with uninhibited women. Mate simplest way is to ask her to simple use her hand to pull up her clit and lips to make it easier for you to enter

[Asker]

No, I mean it, she really, does not do that, and never has, on our wedding night... I could tell. And she makes a disgusted face just at the mention of it! But I can at least ask

[openhearted65]

It's why I said just ask her to pull it up not play with it. The force of your cock will push her clit against her hand anyway.

[Asker]

Oh Okay, I get it, sounds like you know way more about the female body then me

[openhearted65]

happens when I'm twice your age lol.

[Asker]

True, very true lol

[CHARismatic110]

Not unusual. It causes friction in places that normally don't get a lot of action.

[JackKerouac77]

Sounds hawt, as long as penis goes in vagina I'm sure you're fine.

[Your_boss]

No it's not weird
It just means she's enjoying it

[Findesemana]

because it allows better penetration...

[Anonymous]

Meh, my boyfriend sometimes tries to close his legs, but I always spread them apart by force, and he likes that, I guess he enjoys me being dominant.

[Anonymous]

are you really big?

[Asker]

Sorta, i'm long, but thickness is average

[Opinion Owner]

hmm, ok. never mind then.

[Asker]

What were you gonna say?

[Anonymous]

I do that when it feels so good that my mind can't process it. I love when my man holds my legs and takes charge. Sexiest thing ever.

[Anonymous]

i dont think its weird

[Anonymous]

I do that sometimes when it fells really good... like its almost overwhelming so i try to close my legs lol :P

[Anonymous]

She does that so you hit dem walls coz u ain't got da girth! lol