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HONESTLY, would you respect a woman less if she let you/wanted you to dominate her sexually?

I am a female (obviously) and I kind of assume men would have less respect for sexually submissive women.

It's more important to me to keep a man's level of love and respect than to have complete sexual satisfaction.

My thoughts are: would you respect the girl less?

Obviously if you are completely in love with her then it probably wouldn't change that, but if you were on the fence, would that make you respect her less?
Yes, I would still respect her the same
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Honestly, I wouldn't have the same level of respect for her afterwards
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It completely depends on the woman and my level of respect for her before
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  • At the risk of being a little verbose, let me tell you my story. I was raised in a home where I was taught that women are to be respected, admired, and revered. I still hold that value and try to be a perfect gentleman in "real life." However, when I hit puberty, I found myself wanting to spank my women, hard on the bare, and otherwise dominate and inflict erotic pain on them. I was torn for years over this but finally I came to the conclusion that who I am with my clothes on is entirely independent of who I am when the clothes start coming off. I find myself respecting and feeling for her more when she submits because it's a sign of how much she cares for me and how wonderful it is to find someone with compatible kinks.

  • Yeah it's normal and naturally, but make sure you draw a line as to what's too far. I once spat in a girl's face without warning, luckily she was into it. A lot of unexpected things can happen while you're bound so just say something like "I don't mind this but don't do this or that"

Most Helpful Girls

  • Guys are pretty good at separating the bedroom relationship from the rest of the relationship :) if a guy loses respect when you tell him you're sexually submissive, he's just an asshole or prefers sexually dominant woman. Don't you worry! Woman being submissive in the bedroom is super common because they're more *cracks whip* in the relationship

    • That's why you need to be a smart dom

  • I think they would respect you less, they would probably star calling you "his bitch".

  • I find most guys can desperate bedroom and the rest of life so it's normally fine

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  • What happens in the bedroom is between two consenting adults. Hopefully your guy will respect that. I prefer my partner to NOT be submissive most of the time. Sex is a team sport.

  • I would respect her the same and want her to do the same.

  • I would mutually respect her n her feelings as well 🙂

  • I dominate my girlfriend in bed but outside the bed we have a simple and healthy relation

    • That sounds like the ideal

    • If the he is a good guy he will do the same as me. I don't think it's rare, i even think it's quite normal

    • Same here. It's pretty frequent thing

  • It depends if this is strictly a bedroom thing, or if this is a 24/7 thing, if it's just a bedroom thing then, no issues, that's just a sexual preference. If it's 24/7, I think there is some low self esteem or mental issues if somebody wants to be treated like that all the time, I would rather treat a S. O. With respect than humiliate them constantly... just my opinion

  • Naw g you trippen she has problems g and no one wanna talk aboutvit yeah let your truma stay in a closet try to repes it

  • I respect and love woman but I usually take command within social and personal relations.

  • Absolutely, it is the very least I could do for placing all of her trust In me by giving me that control.

  • Why wouldn't I? Girls are supposed to be submissive in sex most of the time. That's what I want, anyway. And what most guys out there want.

  • If she allowed me to dominate her, just so she could keep me around, sweetening the pot so to speak, then no. But if it was her true sexual desire, the Yes, I would have no issue respecting her!

  • Happy woman, happy life so its, smart to do whatever turns her crank

  • No, I don't know why women think that, the only girls guys don't respect is someone who either comes off as weak willed or acts like a bitch to try and compensate for it

  • I'd actually like her more if she wanted / allowed me to dominate her.

  • Me personally find a submissive girl far more sexy and the mood much greater but you have to bo what your doing

  • Respect her more, because she respects and trusts me to dominate her.

  • Yes, you are less respectful than before

  • good to hear its frequent

  • Yeah, he would probably lose respect because it's kinda degrading if you're submissive.

  • I can respect a woman for having a strong mind and personality, but sometimes I just want to use her body like a plaything. Other times, I want to pamper her. And still other times, I want it light and playful and fun.

    The only time I would ever lose respect for a woman for letting me dominate her is if I found out later that she doesn't like being dominated. And only because she lacked the self-respect to speak up

  • Nah, those are the ones I seek. Those are the ones.

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