Horniness is killing me from inside?

[Anonymous]

I am 20 yr old virgin who has always beeen single. I guess bcoz i am just to shy and not confdent to talk to girls. I get horny very easily. I just deperately loose my virginity to someone as I have seen that girls find guys like me [my age still virgin without any gf] dumb stupid, etc. But i am not I am just introverted person who has only couple of friends and I really dont talk to many people. So there's sex in my mind like forever. I just wanna have sex as soon as possible. Dont tell me to go out and meet girls as i have already said how introeverted I am. N I REALLY MEAN IT. I am defination of introvert. But these days i just cannot control my ureges. Even masturbation does nothin for me as I get a huge bonner within couple of hours of masturbation. Also i can't afford visiting a prostitue as there is no scope for me to do so. please tell me what do i do?

[kaylaS91]

Start working on improving your confidence and social skills. Teach yourself through actually doing it that going out and meeting new people to chat and make friends is not so bad once in a while.

That'll take time, to build up the confidence and all to approach a real girl. Howeever, taking the lazy route of basically using prostitues on a long-term basis whne you're horny af is not only expensive af, but will also kill a lot, if not most, of your potential to ever meet and have a relationship with a non-prositute girl.

[BuchitaBuchys]

♪♪My horniness is killing me
And I (and i) must confess.
I still believe (still believe).

When I'm not with someone I lose my mind.
Give me a wife!
Spank my monkey one more time! ♫ ♬

[HonestWhiteGuy]

ill spank something else of yours :o

[Asker]

@HonestWhiteGuy shut up you douchebag... she's tryna help..

[BuchitaBuchys]

@HonestWhiteGuy lol

[Asker]

well sure... that did help... lol

[lizee]

What exactly is your attitude towards them? Do you come on too strong? Are you just tongue tied?

[lizee]

Pressed send too early. Anyway, one solution would be to get one of your friends to hook you with someone and go on a double date with them. You wouldn't be by yourself with a girl then and you could just join in the conversation. Your friend could let them know that you are very shy so they wouldn't expect too much from you at first. Learn to have a conversation with them like, what kind of music do you like? What kind of movies do you watch? That kind of thing. Things that aren't too personal.

[lizee]

PS I've just looked up your problem on the internet and found a site that might suit you. Here's the link. Put the following in your google search engine. Good luck guy. I was once as shy as but now I'm married. You will find someone. Be positive. quora. com/Meeting-New-People-How-does-a-shy-guy-get-a-girlfriend

[Asker]

I mean in the beging i will be real sweet and funny , I can make anyone like me very soon. But eventually my ME attitude comes in middle and I keep praising myself and making them think how great i am... also I fall for every girl that talks to me and end up telling them my feelings reall soon. Being a virgin and introvert any girl talking to me is like a jackpot. But i end up meessing up. Last month i just told some girl that i met online about my feelings like within 5 days... she was really freaked out and got repelled so bad[]

[Asker]

no.. my friends wouldn't do it for me. They are like selfish friends and even if they do they would make me look like a moron in front of them.,,, so i gues thats not the solution ,.. but thanks anyway

[Asker]

sorry second messge was by mistake please ignore it

[Flurr]

Castration. If you don't want to meet any girls or pay to have sex with a girl than how the fuck do you expect to get laid? Just cut your balls off if the sex drive is too much for you to handle, it's not like you ever intend on using them anyways.

[AustinMan]

It might be that you can find some middle ground. I'm probably as extroverted as you are introverted so I get what you're talking about. Go places where girls are but the walls are down: library, church, cultural events, volunteer events.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG!!! Any luck in those places?

[sp33d]

For starters, you can stop pretending like it's the most impactful part of your life. It isn't!

[Asker]

I know but somewhere its affecting my general behavior. I mean the way I look at boobs and ass of al the girls around and end up thinking of fucking them right there... it reallygives me instant huge bonner. That would obv impact me in some part of my life.. right?

[sp33d]

That's just your age, it will pass. Just dreaming about it won't really get you any closer to getting laid, now will it?

[Anonymous]

Don't you know anyone who has crush on you

[Asker]

lol no. I mean I am attractive, tall and fair but problem is I am just too shy and introverted even if girls get crush on me they eventually get repeleed by my attitute towards them

[Anonymous]

Just be patient

[Asker]

I HAVE BEEN ALL MY LIFE... i never got any girlfriend and my friends they are like banging all the chicks they see. I just fukin hate it