I think guys find me hot and am on the hotter side, cause guys with their gfs next to them still check me out, and i have been in 2 relationships that dint last very long at alll, and one assumed that i was flirting and sexting and in relationship with another guy when we broke and when we were going out too, the other one kept asking me for my passwords cause he thought i was texting guys and shit, so yes, i think it is actually veryy veryy hard for attractive guy and girl to find something real, because people only talk to you when they need to see you or show you off or fuck you and act like they are interested until then, after that they say you're not a relationship material or give some bullshit reason, it’s actually pretty pretty tough out there for hot people, cause we do get asked out alottt but not cause they like to talk to us or something, but just by looking at us, they find something attractive they want it, i have seriously given up on dating, relationship, live, or even just fucking, i feel so used, fuck this shit am out man, this generation is soo fucked up on so many levels but apparently is very normal and common and okayyy to doo
0 0 0 0Oh my goodness finally someone who understands this i have exactly been in this situation every single thing your wrote about men checking you out to your boyfriends doubting you it all happened with me as well my boyfriends never trust me they always think i am cheating as i get approached all the time and married men stare at me when they are with their wife and when their wife catches they start to look at me too super annoying when taken guys do that my boyfriend use to show me off send my pictures to his friends without asking me then one of my boyfriend said when people use to stare at us in public that people are staring coz they think how did a guy like me got a girl like u he was basically super insecure guy my another boyfriend in high school use to get angry at me because men stare at me he would blame me
I wish i could tell u how i can relate with you word to word i have also stopped dating so many guys want to hook up with me in my circle i don't want to have sex and feel used by them and relationship always gets about doubt and controlling me and how i should not have any male friends one of my boyfriend even didn't wanted to me to wear heels i dumped him immediately
Wow I'm sorry to here that but you should definitely not give up just focus on you and being the best you that you can be and when the right guy comes along you be ready
Just because someone is attractive doesn’t mean they don’t have a lovable personality too. Everyone should find their partners hot even if they aren’t beautiful to the majority of people.
0 1 0 0I think mostly men go crazy for my curvy body and it doesn't go anywhere
I’m sorry you are having this problem. Do you normally just date men just because they find you attractive, rather than have things in common with as a person?
Mostly men approach me because of how i look any my confidence personality
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I want real love. Regardless of what society classifies as “hot“ or otherwise. A man who truly loves a woman cannot have a price placed. Do I think you guys can love hot girls? Yes absolutely, a guy can and should truly love a “hot” girl for who she is and not just objectify her due to her looks. Sexual attraction is important yes, but there is way way more than looks and sexual attraction.
0 0 0 0And what if guys can't past by her body and think of anything else my boyfriend says my body makes me monster he just wanna fuck
Well my suggestion is that men should learn to control their feelings and passion. Yes of course, all of us men have moments where we want to go at it headfirst. Head meaning head of penis first because that head is doing the primal thinking. We are wired to want to breed and have sex. All that said, a man must learn to separate those primal and natural desires/urges and learn to love the woman he is with first. Love is the foundation. If he cannot place a person behind the body in which he is deep inside and having passionate sex with, than the factor of humanity and being able to share something special with someone is out the window. The sex becomes meaningless because he doesn’t have a person with which he can give his love to.
Very well said but most men think lie u
Yes guys can love hot girls the problem is there so fixated on getting the sex their not taking the time to get to know you so your looks is your blessing and your curse. Just take your time get to know guys and don't be that bitter chic who's mad at the world cause she didn't get what she wanted. Just be you and you'll meet a nice guy
0 0 0 0Thanks for the MHO. So when was you last bad experience dating and what happened
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0 3By this logic only average or ugly girls could find love lol clearly not true
1 0 0 0When average looking people have secure relationships
Men usually say i am hot so i have lot of guys around who hit on me makes them insecure where as average looking are plain they don't stand out in crowd
Lol u think avrage people don't get hit on thats clearly not true I consider myself just about average and get women that flirt with me so I know that's false
If the girl is disciplined properly, she's easy to love. But most have horrible behavior.
0 0 0 0Love is a connection beyond looks. So yes. Lust and love are different. Easy to confuse the 2.
0 0 0 0Is it normal to not feel sexual attraction to the partner u love
Of course it is, but it's different then when one is single. Love means you can fuck someone or just lay naked and bathe in the sexual energy you both create. Lust can be 2 horny friends fucking and stuff. But you can fuck with out love, but fucking when in love is incredible.
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