Hotwifing, your thoughts?

My husband and I have been talking about this and figured we have trust in each other. And would see what it's all about. He is turned on by this fantasy. I can't say I'm not either. But do other men really find this fun, sexy.. and willing to play?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it’s tacky and gross and leads to many marriage breakdowns. Don’t see any point in getting married if you continue wanting to fuck other people and that it devalues her class

  • It's not something I'd ever do but it's cool if others want to.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Have you guys experienced anything like it before? To me it would require a lot of communication between you and your husband

    • No we haven't. Not really. We do communicate, and have been talking about this.

    • I would maybe suggest a threesome first. Test the waters before jumping right in. Does he just want to share you or join in too?

    • We have been with a cpl... and he was totally ok with that! As was I. He doesn't want to join in. During this, although he would do either way. He wants to be close enough to hear what is going on, and see everything.

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  • Please do me the kindness of explaining the term hotwifing.

    • It sounds like maybe a role play scenario. If so I've had the best sex of my life doing it.

    • A “hotwife” is a married woman who often has sexual relations with different men, with the approval of her husband. While many may not agree, the act is common

    • 'while many may not agree, it's common' pedophilia is common. So is child prostitution. So don't ever, ever use the fact that something is common as justification for why it should be considered

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I think you won't have any issues finding bulls, most guys find it hot taking something that isn't theirs

    • Well.. its proving to be difficult. But thanks!

  • It's pathetic even if he knows about it, that make him a cuckold and his wise a slut.

    • I mean "his wive."

    • Wow... ummm ok..

  • There are definitely men willing to play! I can't say that I'd be down with my wife Hotwifing though, because I've seen stuff like blow up so many times. That being said, if you feel that you can do it while following the rules that you and hubby agree to, and absolutely 10,000% respect each other; it could add a fun and sexy aspect to your relationship.

  • I don’t know what that is

    • Googles your friend, use it? 😊

    • Explain it?

    • A “hotwife” is a married woman who often has sexual relations with different men, with the approval of her husband. While many may not agree, the act is common

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  • If you trust each other and are both into it, then go for it

    • Thanks! We do trust each other, and I think this has brought us closer in some ways. It's very attractive that he trust me enough to even bring it you and us consider it. Huge turn on! How do you think we should do about approaching others to play?

    • I'd say just ensure you can trust the other (s) as well, so they understand what their role is and not to threaten your relationship

    • Yes that is his biggest concern. Which I completely understand. Of course we have had our issues in the past. But are much better now. And why would I risk "catching feelings" or leaving, when we are opening our relationship. And can make it closed again at anytime. Seems like a win win.

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  • 802.11g or n? O. o

    • It is apparently NOT a hot spot for wifi-ing. Okay...

    • I can't say I would be open to hoeing out my wife if I had one. How does this benefit the husband?

    • The husband is wanting me to do it. It turns him on. I've had to research to kind of understand. he's mor whoring me out, it's about being open, trusting and communicating it takes a lot of all the above.

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  • It might end up changing things a lot. Fantasy is different from reality.

    • Yes that's true. Thanks for the comment.

  • I want to try.

    • Really? Does your husband or S/O know? Would he approve?

    • Yeah. My husband knows. I'm trying to convince the undecided.

    • Yes it seeming to be finding someone, that's the hardest part.

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  • I find it so hot, I'd love to be a cuckold and your husband is so lucky. Are you thinking of making arrangements to do it?

  • I think it's a great idea!

    • Thanks for you thoughts!

    • Your welcome dollface ;)

  • What is hotwifing?

    • Google it. It's easier that way.

  • I think it's a terrible idea. These things never work out the way you think they will, and you're gambling what sounds like a strong relationship on some fantasy? Don't do it.