How amazingt do you think it would be to have a harem in real life?

How amazingt do you think it would be to have a harem in real life?
This is obviously a fantasy and in no way realistic, but say you live with five or six babes and all are attracted to you and you get all the sex you want and they love hearing you talk, how amazing do you think that would be?
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  • I wouldn't say I've had anything close to this. But there were a few years where my apartment was a perfect mid-point for a handful of my friends who are women. It got to the point I just had a hidden key for them to use. Sometimes I'd come home and someone would be taking a nap, or taking a shower, or cooking something. I very much enjoyed the situation. I got to have friends over quite often, if they made a meal, they left me some which hey, no-effort meal! Eventually the bottom drawer of my dresser and my restroom drawer became communal. Not too many rules either, clean up after yourself, if you use something up, replace it, and 'I can't afford groceries for everyone, so please pitch in.'.

    As for a harem style situation? Ehhhhh... I'm not sure about. If the "harem" was small, and didn't involve sex, but just a lot of intimacy, then sure, there are a lot worse fates than living with amazing friends. But sex would make things super awkward I'd think.

    Also, tone down the loving to hear me talk and stuff, to just normal levels, then it'd be pretty amazing! Easy to split rent or house payments. And always easy to get enough people for some good co-op game action. Also would make going out a lot more fun too. Friends and food? Yes please. Trying new things together, or if the town is as crushingly boring as mine is, travel to a more fun city every so often or invent our own nights out.

    It'd also have to be a situation that they all agreed to, 100% free of coercion, 100% free will, and they have their own fulfilling lives too. If that's how it'd be, then I'd be one very lucky person. And we'd actually might be able to afford a decent house with five salaries.

  • It is my favorite fantasy.

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  • General Rule: too much of anything is not good. With women and all their crazy emotional 💩, one woman is like 3 people. Harem does not sound inviting to me.

  • Six women means six times the problems. Never mind boring you with the movies they've seen, books they've read, or issues with their kids.

    What guy actually wants that?

  • The 'fantasy' is far better that the actual reality... read the actual historical accounts of 'harem life'.
    Largely its 'politics' and producing heirs for succession of the 'favorites'.

    And in such CLOSE proximity, sometimes their menstrual cycles sync and it becomes
    a REAL WISE decision to take some time AWAY from your Harem to go Tiger Hunting.

    If you think being around ONE overly emotional woman is treading eggshells... imagine
    2-or-more temperamental spouses who think YOU'RE an asshole! And are spoiling to vent an argument!

  • An absolute bloody nightmare, being married to 1 woman was enough.

  • It would be a PITA. You would have to buy six of everything or they would complain Read the part of "Roughing It" where Mark Twain meets Brigham Young.

  • You mean "a polyamorous relationship" or "open relationship" if you're American. "Harem" is an old fashioned way of referring to it.

    It's quite the thing these days, and you'll often find swingers and others going for it. In fact there are even ads for couples and subs looking to get into it.

    • Totally different. Harem means what the poster means. Swingers and polyamory involves other dicks, clearly not what posters talking about.

  • It's a common male fantasy, but realistically, I have enough problems handling one woman, how could I ever handle five or six.

  • I wouldn't be able to keep up.

  • Difficult for me to imagine having such a harem with 5 women: think of the costs and the private spaces needed. But sure I'd have a real favourite, and everything might work all right for some time if the ladies love also to please each other and, why not, themselves in the presence of the others and me for instance... Nice fantasy, but not realistic in real life. I would already be happy with one friendly intimate girlfriend.

  • Pretty damn nice, as long as I could afford them and there was no jealousy between them and I could any of them any time I wanted.

  • I suppose it would be fun for a few weeks. It might be exhausting.

  • Sounds pretty amazing, ngl. It's hard to see the downsides there. Unless you're looking for a life-partner, maybe.

  • Multiple partner relationships only work if everyone agrees to share equally.

  • I would rather be their servant boy than the harem leader

  • As fun as it is to see in anime, I’d personally be very uncomfortable in that situation. I only want one woman in my personal life. I want to get married. At best I’ll have a few options to start with, but once I choose someone the rest will have to see us as friends or move on.

  • I'd enjoy it very much. 😉😉

  • It wouldn't be really that great for them since what man has enough stamina to please five or six women everyday?

  • I think it would be problematic. I don't think I could deal with more than 2.

  • Except one week a month...

  • Smh. Most of the men commenting are so beta they can't even enjoy fantasy of the situation. Oh boy. Well i can say i haven't quite lived with 5 women fucking them all but I've more than once had a live in girlfriend and friends with benefits who got along fine and it was long term. I did live w two fwbs at one point for a few months as well. It honestly is awesome and id never consider anything less. Two women is great. I think 3 is ideal but more seems now silly and getting into immoral behavior.

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