Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health How are some guys able to go a year or longer without sex?
Anonymous
I know that men have a higher sex drive than women. For me, one month without sex is already really long. I notice that some guys who are single go years without sex once. How the hell is that possible? I haven't had a relationship in years, neither have a couple of my friends, but we still have casual sex on pretty much a weekly basis. That seems to be the normal thing among most women I know (friends, colleagues, neighbors, etc). With single guys it seems like some fuck a couple times a week, and some don't fuck AT ALL! Don't they go crazy or get depressed? I share a house with 4 guys ever since I started at the uni. Since day one, 3 of these guys had a crush on me, one of them didn't seem to care much, yet he's the one who fucked me on the first night I was there, which lead to quite some pain withe the other three i imagine. Those three are actually really nice guys, especially the one that's still crushing on me after all these years. But they don't speak to me sexually at all and apparently to no other girl either. The other guy is the complete opposite I've never seen him acting nice to any girl, yet he fucks almost on a daily basis. One time a really cute girl of wwf was at our door. He immediately had an argument with her cause he was insulting her with some right winged bullshit and hit on her while she had a boyfriend. Ten minutes later I heard him fucking her in his room like an animal. So that's how different he is than the other 3 guys. But how can these guys go so long without? When the other guy was sick for 6 days, the second he was healed he made me miss an exam cause he had to fuck someone so bad and wouldn't take no for an answer. I've never seen the other three with a girl. And what I've noticed too is that every time I hear him fucking another girl, it makes him sexually more desirable. The others kinda weird me out knowing they never do it. It's quite a turnoff. So is maybe not possible to break this spiral?
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 25yes and yes, you answered your own question. Without something from outside not.
Learning how to control your sex drive at best since rape isn't a good option and knowing you will never get a girl or hoping she would ask him.
Simple they simply can't get it.
I've gone 35 years without having sex. It's quite easy when you are below average down there, and you know that women are going to reject you. You just get used to not having sex.
I can tell from your story that Mr. Alpha guy has a huge penis.
Nice downvote asker... haha. You are a woman, you can get sex as easy as opening your legs.
Trust me if most men who go years without sex had the option to not go years without sex they won't.
they just masturbate
Yeah the other ones are shy and just masturbate a lot and hope they can get a girl someday but the other guy dosent need to since he is an alpha male and knows how to get what he wants