So how are you in the bedroom? A question which may lead people to want to pat themselves on the back and begin to brag on their sexual skills however before anyone does I must say that is not what I am asking. What I am truly curious about is how would you describe your sexuality personality? How are you truly when you are alone with someone you desire trust and care about?
I'll start the conversation 💋
I'm a combination of all the above with the exception to E. I much prefer to have sex with my dear one as often as possible. I'm shy at first. 🙈 Quiet and attentive. Once I've passed the new to each other's stage. I'm playful and creative. I'm up for role playing and exploring ALMOST any kink one may have (the exception I won't be bonded, no pain no humiliation and cleanliness). I love being sweet vanilla too. Romance and spice is a plus. Candles wine chocolate and strawberries🍓 as our body gently sway to love songs or classical music is so devine. Other times I may be friskier, bold, hard fast and fiery ❤️🔥...
So how about you?
What Girls & Guys Said
15 46I am very sex-positive and sexually open-minded. I believe that sex is an adventure to take together and our bodies are a magical world to mutually explore. I also believe that sex should never be forced and should always be something that they WANT to do, not something that they are "obligated" to do. I am very playful, imaginative, and spunky; but I am also tender. The only thing I want to do is share erotic passion with my life partner, and bond with her so that our souls are united as one. If she isn't feeling it, I cannot be into it, either. My energy feeds off of hers.
Beautiful!
@meetkitty123 Thanks! 🤗
I’m more of the roleplay kind if person. Pretending be someone some to make things kinky/dirty. I’ve liked the schoolgirl theme where she is the inneocent and one thing leads to another.
This makes some girls look at me funny but I only like to have sex every once in a while
No experience, but I’m guessing A, B, a bit of D, and trying to be C.
Kinky and love it
Sweet romantic who makes sure she gets hers, multiple times if possible, before we start on me.
I believe I am a sweet and romantic type but I also add a lot of passion when we have sex. I am vanilla to also I pretty old fashion but I do love when she gets on top and takes charge.
I am FANTASTIC. Not just because I like to believe that I am. (Like so many men do). But because I KNOW I AM. For starters, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE WOMEN. I ENJOY PLEASING THEM, AS MUCH AS PLEASING MYSELF. THEIR SATISFACTION AND ENJOYMENT ARE AS IMPORTANT (IF NOT MORE SO) THAN MINE. AND IT SHOWS. I'VE HAD MANY WOMEN TELL ME THAT I'M THE BEST SEX THEY'VE EVER HAD. (NOW, I'M NOT A BRAGGART OR ANYTHING, I SWEAR. I JUST THOROUGHLY DEDICATED MYSELF TO PLEASING MY PARTNER) AND I DO. I TAKE CHARGE IN THE BEDROOM, TRY NEW THINGS, I'M PASSIONATE (NO SKIPPING FOREPLAY HERE) BUT THEN AGAIN SOMETIMES IT'S FAST AND FURIOUS TOO. I'LL GRAB HER UP, RIP HER CLOTHES OFF, AND POUND HER SILLY. I COMMUNICATE WHAT I WANT, AND RECEIVE COMMUNICATION WELL ALSO. I LOVE KISSING, LICKING, TOUCHING, TALKING, (DIRTY) , OCCASIONALLY SWITCHING IT UP AND GIVING HER CONTROL... GIVING MY GIRL ORAL IS AS MUCH FOR ME AS IT IS FOR HER TOO... **I**LOVE**IT**... ANY QUESTIONS? LOL...
Nope no questions. Anyone is good when paired with a person who matches their sexual personality. On the other hand no one would be good in bed if paired with a person who is incompatible with their sexual personality. For example I on the other hand noticed a few places where we'd clash and actually we wouldn't even make it to going all the way.
Though I must say a man who makes certain to pay attention to the importance of foreplay and giving her an orgasm first gets a passing grade for sure!
Like I said, MY GIRL'S SATISFACTION is of equal or greater importance than mine.. but not to mention that there's more to great sex than just getting in and orgasm or two (or 10)... The connection, that chemistry, that passion, that excitement, that drive, that desire to taste them, touch them all over.. I love it all...
HOW RITE YOU ARE MA'AM... The girl that I'm with right now is actually fantastic in bed, WHEN SHE O PUTS IN THE EFFORT. WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 AND 1/2 YEARS ON AND OFF AND FOR THE LONGEST TIME IT WAS NOT VERY GOOD, AT ALL. MOST OF THE TIME IT WAS DOWNRIGHT BAD ACTUALLY. OUR PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE ACTUALLY RARELY IN TUNE WITH EACH OTHER AND I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FIX THIS.. I WENT THROUGH A COUPLE MONTHS WHERE I HAD TROUBLE "PERFORMING" ESPECIALLY FINISHING... AND BEFORE I COULD EVEN SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT SHE TOOK IT UPON HERSELF TO ASSUME THAT I WAS JUST NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO FINISH (OR PERFORM AT ALL) AND JUST EXPECTED ME NOT TO. SO WHEREAS WOULD I ACTUALLY WANTED AND NEEDED WAS FOR HER TO DOUBLE UP ON THE ENTHUSIASM, AND TECHNIQUE, SHE LET IT WANE... SHE'S ACTUALLY LEAVING ACCUSE ME OF BEING OVERLY FOCUSED ON SEX, NOW THIS IS SOMETHING I'VE HAD MANY FIGHTS ABOUT IN MANY RELATIONSHIPS DURING MY LIFE. I REFUSE TO ACT LIKE SEX IS NOT IMPORTANT AT ALL, BUT IT'S NOT EVERYTHING AT THE SAME TIME. MY PROOF BUT THIS IS HOW I FEEL IS WHEN I POINTED OUT TO HER THAT OUR SEX WAS VERY MUNDANE FOR THE LONGEST TIME, BUT I HUNG IN THERE, I DIDN'T JUST LEAVE HER BECAUSE WE DIDN'T INITIALLY HAVE GREAT SHE ACTUALLY SAID SHE DIDN'T REALIZE IT WAS THAT BAD AND WHY DID I NEVER SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT BEING BAD? I SAID BECAUSE THAT WOULD HAVE HAD THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF WHAT I WANTED, (THE SEX GETTING BETTER, NOT WORSE)..
You may have to also consider what you contribute because I don't even know you but in one two three actually let's say just one I didn't get to three you already had rubbed me wrong and I got a feeling it wasn't your intention to do so For all I know you may be a down to earth cool guy if that is the case you didn't allow that to shine through instead you came off as... Egotistic or arrogant neither characteristic is arousing or appealing to women or men. Remember It takes two (at least) to tango or... make love 😘
of the above options definitely kinky. i like a lot more foreplay than usual. im also into a couple fetishes lol.
im also a pleaser. i take pleasure and satisfaction over getting her orgasm. if i don't finish her i tend to feel unsatisfied like i failed my mission lol.
also if i finish first i will keep pleasing her until she finishes i don't just stop.
Do you think this sounds good @meetkitty123? What do you think?
Well I must say having a partner who is determined to make the other person reach orgasm is always a plus... Though you left us readers curious on those fetishes 😉
Heh yeah those are secret 🤫
🤔 hmm guess I'll have to write a question in it😝
haha. you can ask me in dm's if you like. i just don't like saying it out in the open. too many judging eyes out here kink shaming smh
I only teasing I am not gonna make ya uncomfortable or put you on the spot
in dm's you can't make me uncomfortable at all *growlssss* ;)
Lol and did you suddenly forget where the DM box is 😅 I'm the one suffering from a concussion
lol nooo i was thinking you would dm me first lol.
I’m good. I wouldn’t say I’m the best anyone has ever had (even though I’ve been told that.) I do my best to please and service my women as best I can. So if they don’t enjoy themselves and there time with me.. that’s on them.. not me.
Its mostly a combination of the above. Depends on the kind of woman.
Too bad I couldn't pick more than one. It all depends on the type of mood for both of us. I wouldn't want her uncomfortable so I try to read her moods and reactions. First with a woman I'll be passionate and try her needs. I do like a little bit of roughness but again, only if she's in the mood too. It ends up being a mix by each day.
Ya ga does let us multi select but I offered a vague combination of the above option
kinky bunny
I'm a pleaser that loves to get lost in pleasuring my woman while also getting mine as well. I'm kinky, like to be dominated and for the woman to have quite the creative dirty talk.
Busting nuts then wanting my space
I want it everyday with a lot of freaky freaky freaky things going on and never ever telling me you're tired because I will not let you stop until you can't go anymore then I will push you even harder.
God Bless
Her pleasure comes first
Mysterious, get to know me and you'll find out 😈😇
Im a two pump chump
I voted for “Wants it everyday”. I am patience, lovable, just want to make the girl cum as much and as hard as she can.