How are you supposed to ride?
I don't know if it’s just the self-conscious aspect that makes me suck or what, but some advice would be great ^^
I'm assuming you are talking about riding him, with him on his back, and you facing him. Get your legs on either side of his hips, and kneel over him. Let your knees fold more, as you slide his dick into you. Do this fairly gently, to avoid any injury to his dick. When riding him, do so slowly at first, with a rhythm, and being sure your upward swing is low enough to keep him in you. Slowly increase the speed of your rhythm. This should give him a very good sensation to his dick. You can go faster, but you don't need to go fast. In fact, going fast could result in injury to his dick, because if you swing too high, and his dick comes out, as you swing back down, you could trap his hard, upright dick against your pubic area, and actually seriously damage his dick. This type of injury happens more easily, if you are going fast. Be sure that you are going low enough to get all of his dick in you, and the rhythm gets to a fast enough pace to be around what his rhythm is when he is pushing into you, in other positions. In the end, you may be doing absolutely nothing wrong, and the problem may lie with him, or that he just doesn't particularly like being ridden. I'm not sure what you mean by 'flipping us over..'. Does he go to doggy style, or some other position that increases your pussy pressure on his dick? If so, then he just may want more pressure than you can give when riding him. However, that still doesn't explain why he doesn't let you have the fun of riding him, and why he doesn't enjoy it much. Really, I doubt that you are doing much wrong. It's more likely him. Frankly, I'm having difficulty envisioning him not liking you ride him, as it's a fun position for a guy, as he can see her riding his cock, and her tits bounce in his face. The problem more likely is with him. Talk to him about this.
Yeah, he mainly likes missionary or doggy and their variations. Thanks for all the tips tho, I really appreciate it!
Asker: His liking doggy and missionary, et. al., is the real issue then. Not how you ride him.
Ask your boyfriend to hold your hips and direct you a little. Strangers can't help you since there's no one right way to have sex, talk with your boyfriend.
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If you aren't comfortable squatting, you can take the support of your knees while riding. Moving forward and moving your lower body up and down will help.
well I've heard grinding while you ride seems to work
Maybe practice that stuff on a pillow twice a week. I bet you can literally look up tutorials for that on Pornhub.
Go slow and steady. You'll need more than one day to get it right. just ask your guy to be patient
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