How can a girl NOT be a ''dead fish'' in sex positions where a man is dominant?

Something like missionary or doggy, or when a guy is simply doing foreplay or performing oral, I was always under the impression that the girl should just '' lay there'' and enjoy. So many complain about the girl not being good in bed, and lacking enthusiasm, but I thought the enthusiasm is showed when she is taking the lead with positions of her on top, where she is doing the work. So how can a girl not be a dead fish in something like missionary? What is she expected to do?
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  • I just go with his movements, I don’t like to stay there and lay down unless he’s down on me. If he’s down on me I move my hips to get him where I want him to be. if we’re doing missionary or doggy I still move my hips and complete his movement. It honestly feels better than just staying there like a “dead fish” because I can still control the depth and the rhythm to some extent

  • Move, respond, "fuck back", touch and caress, talk and moan.

Most Helpful Guys

  • People are just different. She should enjoy herself, that's what matters. Not try to perform. Some people just aren't a sexual match. There are probably dominant guys who enjoy a ragdoll-type woman. Am personally more of a passionate type, but have seen guys who fuck like robots.

    • So what is the difference between a ragdoll and passionate in those positions for you?

    • A ragdoll is more someone who's just letting their body be used for the other person's pleasure. She might not even like sex. She's just doing it for his sake. She's not emotionally involved. It's different if she's evidently lost in bliss.

    • Also, women tend to be at least a bit vocal.

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  • There's a lot a girl can do. For example, in missionary position she can thrust her pelvis in sync with the guy's thrusts. She can wrap her arms and legs around the guy and run her hands up and down his back. She can contract her vaginal muscles around his penis.

    • Ok I guess when they say 'dead fish' they really mean someone completely non responsive lol :D cause what you mention here seem like common sense

    • Okay then! 😁

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  • You can move under him, tell him how big he is, tell him to fuck you harder, a world of things.

  • If he's good you'll naturally respond and give physical feedback. If a girls just lying there then the guys crap and she's probably bored

  • Nothing wrong being still so he can control reach and speed.

  • Maybe don't just be looking dead like just looking at him
    maybe moan a bit in a hot sexy voice to make him go crazy
    maybe use your hands to touch him someway hot
    don't be just like looking at him in silence that would be a "dead fish" meaning
    maybe bite your lips or change your face expressions if he goes harder , that would spice it up a bit :D
    hope I could help !

  • You don't want to be a dead fish Make Some Noise move around put some energy into it have some motivation

    • That's it? isn't that part of it anyway? Dont all girls move around and moan during that?

    • No some just lay there and they don't do anything moan yes they all do that but when you just lay flat on your back and don't move that's not too good or if you don't moan that loud

    • Some guys don't like loud moaning either :)

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  • Sounds like trash dick

  • She has hands, legs , hips, and the ability to bend her neck and spine as well as talk. Using those abilities can be quite dynamic even in the missionary position.

    • Is that movement something that naturally comes from enjoying it or has a girl ever done anything on purpose in that position that elevates the experience?

    • Not sure how much of it is deliberate since I never asked. But there can be garbing , moaning , screaming, scratching , thrusting , pulling and dirty talk which makes them "live fish".

    • Haha live fish lol

  • Get on the top & fuck him. I've never experienced but i would love if my girl is dominant in bed, use her lips & pussy to seduce my penis head.

  • No you just lay there. The only thing you can do is be attractive looking and act like you really want to be there

    • haha lol I think that is what they want too

    • LOL like girls can ever make up their minds 100% No they can’t and they don’t Just act like his dick is the greatest thing since the iPhone

    • wtf are you on about?

  • A guy can be dominant in doggy or missionary, and the girl still be active. Especially in missionary. She can wrap her legs around him, kiss him, hug him, move her hips with his, feel his cock and balls, etc. In doggy it's more difficult, but she can look back and give him that 'I like you fucking me look' and guide his hands to her tits, and get into the doggy position in a way that makes it sexier and more animal like.

  • You can't, I guess you'll just have to take initiative and be dominant/on top.

  • Oh no, you got to thrust back and be active even in those positions. Don´t be lazy, that´s just boring.

    • But that just happens naturally when you are into it. I thought some girls do something with their limbs, hands or sth else. Be extra in some way

    • Yes of course you should use your hands etc, don´t just lay there and be sure to push your pussy in his face and give him a good grinding

    • Haha nice