How can a girl watch lesbian porn and not be considered gay?

[chris_987]

If I watch gay porn I wouldn’t be surprised if people thought I was gay

[JEndigoBleue]

It's funny... watching another man naked getting it on with a women with a big dick or cock is not considered gay? Because if he doesn't have a big dick or cock, you're not truly inclined to watch. Because the fantasy is that man is you having sex with said woman, etc with the big ass and big tits. But, it wouldn't be exciting if he didn't have a big dick to make said women perform and cum. Yeah, it's your dick will get hard looking at her naked, but it's something about seeing a man fuckin her.

So, is that gay or not? A man watching a naked man having sex with a naked woman?

[chris_987]

I don’t watch straight porn, but whatever, I think the men that watch straight porn are pretending they are the man because the women is getting turned on by having her vagina fuked but that just my opinion

[JEndigoBleue]

What porn do you watch

[chris_987]

Lesbian, what about you?

[JEndigoBleue]

Why do you watch Lesbian porn? What's the fascination behind it for you? And, I don't watch porn. Yet, I do since most of the "R" to "NC-17" movies are raunchy as porn. Both have fake acting.

[chris_987]

A naked female gives me a hard on, lol why else do you think I would watch two females. A hard penis does nothing for me, but the female bodies is what I’m attracted to so it makes sense to watch lesbian porn for me. I don't know why girls watch it but that’s just me. A lot of lesbians porn is real because women know there own bodies so a lot of the times they actually do have orgasms.

[JEndigoBleue]

Yeah, it make sense but not the norm. Most men will look at both or just straight porn. And, nothing wrong asking a question that seems to you one would should understand. That's folks can't communicate effectively. They assume too much that a person should know. Now because I asked I know where your mindset is at. But, why look at two women having sex when you can enjoy someone in person?

[chris_987]

Lol do I look like a girl? Guys actually have to try and get girls so it easy for a girl to say, when all you have to do is be born a female to get attention from the opposite sex

[JEndigoBleue]

True. Yet, not. Most females want to be married or need to be in a relationship to be sexual. It may appear that a lot a females are liberated and promiscuous but not. So, it's hard for them as well to find a man they can trust to be in an intimate and committed relationship with. Married or not. You don't have fuck buddies or just someone you can hook up with in between your relationships? It's funny having fuck buddies/hook ups and relationships of that kind are still a form of a relationship with commitment. It's just not that serious.

[JEndigoBleue]

And, no, you don't look like a girl, you like Easy-E. Ha, ha, ha! 😂🤣😅 Whomp, whomp... I just had to say that. Corny I know.

[chris_987]

Lol I always find it funny when a girl think you’re average guy has women that are ready to sleep with him, it just so sad that women can’t relate to men but think they can. No I do not have these hordes of women who I can choose from to hook up with between relationships. As a guy we initiate conversation with women and have to do it often to get sex. You average girls is just choosing from the millions of guys that are ready to sleep with her so you can’t compare the two. So when women do I just laugh cause you guy don’t even have the foggiest idea of what it’s like to have the opposite sex think it’s your job to prove that your worthy of there time. I would live to be a woman and be entitled choose from the millions of people that want to have sex with me but I’m a man so if I don’t put in effort I get zero results. But I’ll of this probably went over your head.

[JEndigoBleue]

No, it did not go over my head. I understand. I did not mean to imply that you had a lot of women lined up. More so if you did have someone or someone in the past. Why do you think you're average? Stop thinking that your average. It shows in your energy. Change your mindset. Stop trying to get sex. Some females can pickup on your energy. Stop dressing up your intentions that you are trying to have a relationship with them. Just be friendly. Funny. Enjoyable to talk too. It's like women are not stupid. Some are but not most. Women know you want sex. So, you have be the opposite (act like you don't want it) or just be direct in what you want. Yes, you may not get her if you are direct but at least you won't waste your time or money with trying. And, being direct with what you are looking for is not saying "I like you and I want to have sex with you." You have to find ways to introduce the idea. You know there's women out there that are open to the idea. You just have to find the right female that will be down. A lot women have needs just want to find the right person for the need. I know a lot of men don't believe to be direct because " females don't respond well to that" Yeah, but your efforts of trying to hide behind a lie and not being truthful of what you really want doesn't always work either. I'm not following you on "You average girls is just choosing from millions of guys that are ready to sleep with her. So you can't compare the two." It’s the "compare the two" What do you mean bybcompare the two?

[JEndigoBleue]

Oh, I understand now. Average guys and average girls are different in the sex game.

[JEndigoBleue]

Well, not really. You have to find your audience. You said a lot of your friends liked you. But, did you try having a sexual relationship with them? You know if a woman likes you, she's sexually attracted. If she's always in your space. Talking to you, smiling, jokey, touchy feely... she's receptive to you. But, it doesn't mean you rush in to have sed. But, you won't have a problem getting it either. Just gotta pay attention to a female's energy.

[chris_987]

It all boils down to why? Why should I go out there and try to get girls when they have made it clear they should have to try to get me. All of your responses are how I should do this or do that. If you change my gender you wouldn’t be telling me to go out there and talk to men because that’s not what females have to do. So simple all my life people have been telling me what I need to do to get a girls but no one is telling girls what they need to do get a guy. And I can sense that girls nowadays feel no reason to act on a guy they like so why in the hell im putting all this effort for a person who is taught that men are something worth dying for, bet yet men are taught we should die for women. That is the very definition of unequal. Any take from that what you will, cause I’m sure you will blame me for not wanting to get to know girls or some nonsense about me wanting sex from every girl I talk to. In a Christian at the end of the day and my relationship with god is far more valuable that have sex with a bunch of strangers.

[JEndigoBleue]

So, you were never aware that some of these women liked you? Well, sense you connect with God and he said "It's not good for man to be alone and he presented Eve and he claimed her by saying bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh, etc"... And, Solomon said "He that finds a wife finds a good thing" and Paul I believe said "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it" Sooo, you have every right to go to God and speak what he said you should be and desire back to him. Life and death is in the tongue. Marriage "is" by God as well as "Sex". You can't put a world or carnal mindset to a spiritual one. You'll hate one and love the other. Now I see why it says "you can't serve two masters" No, I wouldn't blame you. But, why would you not engage in a simple but small conversation with a women you find attractive or interesting? So, you say nothing at all? Do you consider yourself shy when you really like someone? Or, you know them but don't think she would be interested in you? And, that's great. Value your spirituality. If that's where your head is, why ask these off the wall sexual questions all the time? Your mind be racing with thoughts.

[chris_987]

Good that you quoted scripture cause that’s my specialty. Eve left the leadership of her husband and disobey god, Adam are the Apple to save eve because with out her she would die, that why Christ is the second Adam Solomon also said out of a thousand women he has not found one wise woman and he had a thousand wives so he should know. If women aren’t as wise as men why do you think you can lead yourself or make better decisions about your life than a man, who was created to subdue earth and solve all problems on earth, women went created to solve problems, a help meet is not the some role as a man. Paul said to die for you wives yes but the other part that women never quote is “wife’s should listen to the husband” some how that part when it’s quoted by women always gets left out. And women nowadays don’t respect men enough to be lead by us, that why saying like women are better than men and women mature faster than men exist. It’s a sign that women have lost there god given purpose in life which is to make the family the best it can be. Who said I don’t talk to women? I just said that every girl thinks it’s the mans responsibility to start a relationship and keep her happy, and in a day and age where women don’t even respect the average guy, that is futile attempt because I’m gonna end up putting in effort for women they aren’t even taught why a man is important in her life. So yeah I talk to women but if they like me then all they have do is treat me like I’m need and so far no girl has done that. Probably because there are told the only men that are need are rich men with large dicks. So I’m eliminated right away, but then so is Jesus cause was the poorest person ever born. If girls aren’t humble enough nowadays to realize that Jesus is the type of man they should strive for, then what makes you think they are marriage material. And I ask sexual questions because I’m curious and 95% of people on this site are atheist so asking spiritual questions would lead

[chris_987]

Me no where, men are naturally born problems solvers so asking girls questions to prove our point is how we come to conclusions. I’d rather not just guess when I can just ask a random if she really feels this way.

[JEndigoBleue]

Why do men always gotta expound on their "ego". You know Adam sinned in the garden too being as though God told him first about not eating of the tree. But he stood their and let Eve be beguiled instead of rebooking the devil and Eve. Once again leadership was off from the beginning. Instead of men marrying as God said to do and be fruitful and multiple... Man wants to create his own will. I'm not getting married but will fornicate. Have children out of wedlock. Abuse and take advantage of women, etc. Whatever a man institutes in this world, a woman will follow. She's only cultivating what man have started and continues to be. "SIN" push women to be feminists to the 10th power.. But,, there are some truths.. A woman is not a child, sex slave,, housekeeper, stupid, ignorant, etc. You blame her just like Adam for the sins of the world. You're the image of Christ not the woman. Sin came through Adam and not Eve. That's why Christ "is" the new Adam and not "Eve". If men treated women right in the world, women wouldn't have to be so overly possessive with having rights.

[JEndigoBleue]

And, about women being disobedient. Yeah, she's in a state of her own too because she wants to do it her way too. But, a woman is not a child and the Bible constantly stress love. Love your neighbor as yourself. Treat her as Christ treat the church and gave himself for it. If you treat the woman like Christ treat the church... What's does God like "Praise" she will praise you and honor your. Visa versa. You're both Christians so the love and respect should be there anyway. It's just a matter of getting to know each other and having similar goals and family lifestyle. It's funny. You all prove the situation how you talk to a woman in a simple conversation. I don't demean men but they always have a way to demean women in the conversation. You call her unintelligent yet you want to have a family and sex with her. That's like the slave master calling the slaves not human but have sex with them and allow them to cook their food. SMH. Yet they're ignorant, stupid... Yada Yada.

[JEndigoBleue]

Women problem solve all the time with their children. We all can problem solve.

[JEndigoBleue]

Some better than others

[chris_987]

So what did Solomon mean when he said women are not wise.

[JEndigoBleue]

Yes, coming from a man obsessed with women from foreign countries whom God told not to take as wives. Because they will turn him away from God.. But the verse you speaking of said " he found "one" upright man, amongst thousands and not one woman." Upright and not lacking wisdom. Solomon said “Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord” So, if you want that traditional wife go ask God. He also honored the Queen of Sheba for intelligence. Solomon’s mother was wise in telling him about a virtuous woman. It's not like this is God's opinion, this is Solomon's. There are many examples of wise women in the Bible... Deborah, Abigail, Hannah, Mary, Zipporah, Anna. God don't demean women, men do. What you read in the Bible is about "mankind" and their sinful nature among other things. And, let's not forget Solomon was a man not God. Had all that wisdom but did foolish things.

[chris_987]

Ok so then don’t deal with men who don’t respect women, it’s that simple

[JEndigoBleue]

Disrespect is always a dismissal in my book. No second chances. No female or male should show disrespect.

[Poppykate]

Curiosity? Oddly enough I was having a conversation with a straight friend (male).
I had to tell him that my eyes where higher! 😏 Anyway we got to thinking, 🤔 Are gay men like this? Do they say to one another ‘stop looking at my ass/package- my eyes are up here’? We came to the conclusion that men are men, whether gay or not. And will always be obvious about looking. Any thoughts?

[chris_987]

If women didn’t exist there would be no such thing as romance, kissing or for play, just hold you stick your dick in to make it cum.

[loves2learn]

Because a woman being pleasured is arousing. Doesn’t mean she actually wants to have sex with a woman. Also lesbian porn is much more gentle than mainstream porn.

[chris_987]

Why watch a women get pleasured from another woman, why is it turn of if she gets pleasure from a man

[loves2learn]

Not a turn off if she gets pleasured by a man at all. Only a turn off if he’s too aggressive in the wrong ways.

[chris_987]

In what ways? Cause fifty shades of grey was the number one selling book by woman, so obviously a lot of women love aggressive/rapists sex

[loves2learn]

Not this woman. I like the man to take control, yes, but gently. I’m not into pain or being forced to do anything.

[chris_987]

So should porn cater to you or what the majority of women want?

[loves2learn]

I don’t care what porn caters to. Lol. I can search out what I like.

[Nazgol]

Maybe she watches for pleasure but doesn't mean she will necessarily act on it. People watch all sorts of stuff for pleasure

[chris_987]

Is that so. What do you watch for pleasure

[Anonymous]

When I watch lesbian porn I do it because is so gentle and they are so caring with eachother, def a turn on to hear another woman moan. Does that mean I want to eat pussy? Absolutely not

[chris_987]

Do you think they actually orgasm or are they faking it with women too

[Opinion Owner]

Some may be orgasming, but most of them fake. Porn is made for the viewer, you won't see anything if the one giving in the video will really go for it. Pussies are not like penises, you have to get your face in there if you wanna see a real orgasm Nice to watch, nonetheless

[chris_987]

Naww nowadays girls in lesbian scene orgasm more often, I watch a podcast with a lot of pornstars and they say they always orgasm more in a lesbian scene because girls have pride from making another girl cum, and they know how to do it.

[Opinion Owner]

Then why did u ask me? They may be right, I'm not a porn star, nor I watch porn podcasts.

[chris_987]

Because most women say that the opposite orgasm are fake in porn, I think they say that out of ignorance

[Opinion Owner]

Also never had lesbian sex, I wouldn't know if women really are better. They do look better in lesbian porn, that's a fact. Sometimes my pussy is throbbing at the same time with the one in the scene lol

[Opinion Owner]

What do u mean by opposite orgasm?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm into men, I know because I had sex with guys and I quite enjoyed it. I'd probably allow a girl to eat me, to experience those sensations, or maybe's just a fantasy. But I'd never be able to eat pussy. I know for a fact. Just the thought of it makes me gag

[Opinion Owner]

So no, I am not into "that"

[Opinion Owner]

As for the porn orgasm, you can never know, pornstars can literally say anything, you have no real proof that's the truth

[chris_987]

No but crying and squirting multiple time would be hard to fake id imagine

[Opinion Owner]

Squirting is just peeing, proved by doctors with real evidence. They even explained our role is to lubricate for penetration then collect the man's ejaculate through vagina and into our uterine tubes where it meets the ovule for conceiving a baby, we have no reason whatsoever to ejaculate anything. When we climax, our pelvic muscles contract inwards to push the sperm up and towards the uterus. Never wondered why "squirting" always happens through urethra? Lol

[chris_987]

Hey is 2021 and where still finding things out about the female genitalia, so if that doesn’t prove how complicated you guys are then I don't know what does. The penis is much simpler, we don’t be vibrators and g-spot locations to cum. So that why it’s always funny when girls expect guys to know how to make them cum. You guys barely know if the squirting is real.

[Matilda79]

Hello @erin_ireland, "Also never had lesbian sex, I wouldn't know if women really are better. " Then why are you caliming to be straight if you don't know if women are better or not? that's really stupid you know? if you are straight then you should know that you are not into women sexually, also does not wanting to eat pussy make you straight? definitely not, you said "I'd probably allow a girl to eat me", here you go, then you are not straight, you are very confused, if you are sexually into women then you are not straight, (gay/bisexual/bi-curious/heteroflexible) choose one.