How can a Lesbian crave men?

Question

I have been a lesbian since 16 & I'm now 34 & after I had my first baby (donor) I long to get intimate with men. I crave their genitals all over me & I just can't talk to anybody about it. Does anybody have any idea why I crave penis so much

ShesSoSilly · Accepted Answer

I don't think anyone here can really give you an answer to this. I mean like already said it could be hormones, it could be temporary, or it could be permanent. No one really knows and all you can do is take time to find yourself and what you want and like. Maybe you're bisexual? It could be a lot of things. Whatever it is I think you should just be open minded and find out what feels right to you. When you're ready maybe you should try being with a man and see if that satisfies the craving or if you can even go through with it. Maybe its a fantasy, not something you necessarily want to act on...
Like I said no one really knows all I can do is make assumptions.

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

When you have a baby, your body goes through hormonal changes that can have lasting impacts. It's possible that the hormones you experienced during pregnancy somehow triggered an interest in men that wasn't there before. But that's just one option- I don't know that anyone can really answer this question for you. If you are feeling confused or upset by this, I would suggest talking to a counselor, especially one that specializes in matters of sexual orientation and identity. A google search will help you find ones in your area.

xxblue_eyes · Accepted Answer

Sexuality is a spectrum, people don't just fit neatly into categories.

letmeaskthis · Accepted Answer

i don't know the answer to your question nut i was wondering as to why do women ask self derogatory questions whereas men ask degrading women perverted questions? why do women ask questions like "why did my boyfriend cheat on me, what did i do wrong" or "why did my boyfriend broke up with me, wasn't i doing something in bed" whereas men ask questions like "why are women sluts" or "do women love to swallow"? do most women have low self esteen and do most men have too-high self esteem and perverted minds?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I have heard of straight women turning gay after something like menopause. I guess it has something to do with hormone changes. If you just had a baby then your hormones may still be all over the place. I couldn't say whether or not this is permanent, but I don't see it as anything to be worried about unless you aren't attracted to your current partner anymore.