How can girls go without masturbating or sex?

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My girl friend say most girl don't masturbate or finger them self. It's been a week now for me and I'm going crazy I'm non stop horny and feel intensive sexual sensation when I see sexy women. Every time I something sexy I get tingle in my abdomen and penis. But how can girls control them self if they don't masturbate? Is it that God gives them weak sexual urge? The more we go without any sexual relief the more our sexual energy increase but why don't girls feel the same? They only get sexual sensation around ovulation and after that automatically this feelings become non-existent? Frequency of masturbation or sex don't affect their sex drive, it's all about ovulation and it's a fixed routine?

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ShaunaM95 Guru
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Some girls masturbate just as often as guys. It depends on the persons sexual drive, not everyone is the same. And girls don't only feel sexual urges around ovulation. When my boyfriend is around, we have sex everyday so that's completely not true. And anyway, just worry about yourself, don't worry about the rest of us I'm sure we're managing ok.
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- Asker
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  I'm not worried about you and women. I just want to know. You said some girls masturbate just as often as guys, so some girls have sex drive and majority have no sex drive? You have boyfriend and your boyfriend want sex that's why you have sex with your boyfriend, it's not because you want.. it's because your boyfriend want... isn't it? Also you have sex because of emotional connection but what was happened when you were single? I'm a single guy, I have no emotional connection with girls but I feel sexual urge naturally...
- ShaunaM95
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  I have sex with my boyfriend because I want to of course! If I didn't want to have sex with him then I probably wouldn't be with him anymore. I felt sexual urges just as often when I was single, I just only got off when I absolutely needed to. Girls and boys are different anyway when it comes to that stuff. Just nature I guess.
- Asker
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  How much different they are?
Kitten967 Guru
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I don't masturbate because I can have sex whenever I want it. I can't go longer than a week without sex.
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- Asker
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  If you go without longer than a week without sex what do you feel? Do you feel non stop horny and feel intensive sexual sensation.
- Kitten967
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  Sometimes
- Asker
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  Sometimes? But you said you can't go longer than a week without sex... What do you feel if you go longer than a week without sex?
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- Kitten967
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  I rarely go for longer without. I just get more easily annoyed and horny more often if I haven't had it for a while
- Asker
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  Doesn't it depend on time of the month I mean ovulation? Or frequency of sex affects sexual urge and sexual sensation?
- Kitten967
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  Well I don't get mood swings or more horny when I'm ovulating. I'm more horny on my period though. That's the only other time there's any change in sexual sensation. The frequency of sex acts don't change, I have sex often regardless of the time of month.
- Asker
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  Your sexual urge is pretty constant and it just increase during your period?
- Kitten967
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  Yeah
ushagomez Master
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Maybe that is just what we like you to think. We keep our secrets...
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- Asker
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  Do they they actually have urge?
- ushagomez
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  Yes we have the urge. Or at least most of us do. I know that I do and so do all my friends, but people are different.
- Asker
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  You do have urge only for specific time or it exist all the time?
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- ushagomez
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  Well not continuously, there are other things in life... it just depends on when, where, our mood I guess and also if you have a routine such as before sleeping. Also depends if you have a bf/gf, or u are single. There are no rules, everyone is an individual.
- Asker
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  Do single girls get horny? Girls say if their boyfriend/emotional partner touch them then they feel horny. When you are alone don't you feel horny? Libido doesn't exist most of the time? Any given stimuli don't make you horny anytime if you are single?
- ushagomez
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  Oh yes we get frisky when we are single too. I guess maybe we just don't make such a big thing about it. Yes a touch from bf/gf in the right circumstances also arouses us. I can assure You that we have all the same thoughts and desires.
- Asker
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  Touch from bf/gf in the right circumstances arouses girls. But I'm talking about single girls... they don't have bf/gf then how do they get horny? "I guess maybe we just don't make such a big thing about it." - What does it mean? Is there any schedule/routine for women when they feel horny and after that they become asexual? Often hear that women only get their sexual energy around ovulation (3-5 days) and rest of the month their sex drive become silent and non-existent. They only need to masturbate 3-5 days of the month and rest of the month they don't feel urge for it.
- Styloholic
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  Why do you keep it a secret? Does it mean most of the girls are sex-freak and they hide it?
- ushagomez
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  @Styloholic Haha, no we are not sex freaks. We are just normal.
- Styloholic
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  Normal with high sex-drive?
- ushagomez
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  @Styloholic Well what is high to one person may be normal sex drive to another. everyone is different.

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Anonymous
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Women are total opposites of men & due to testosterone levels , brain wiring & also sex negative social conditioning have much lower sex drives than men do. Most women could very happily be , & remain celibate indefinably. There are a lot of asexual , sex averse women. Men need a libido killer to even the playing field.
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- Asker
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  But why?
spoonman2014 Xper 6
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Because they are used to most men masturbating with their vagina so they do not know what gets them off
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lyannamormont Explorer
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I can't go without masturbating even a day I guess. But I went without sex for 2 years 8 months. I don't know how. i guess I was too heartbroken from a previous relationship to not want a guy at all.
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- Asker
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  What do you feel if you go long without masturbation? Do you feel non stop horny and feel intensive sexual sensation.
- lyannamormont
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  I had to go for a month and a half without masturbation because I had a guest and my house is studio so no private area. And I like to do it in my bed, not in shower or something. Plus I am always a little loud when having sex or masturbating, which actually making noise or breathing heavily makes me hornier and cum faster. So I felt under constant sexual tension until my guest left the house. And the first thing I went after she left was to get my vibrator out and play with myself.
- Asker
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  Masturbation frequency affects your sexual urge? or time of the month responsible for your sexual urge? Abstain from masturbation increases your sexual arousal and sexual sensation?
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- lyannamormont
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  Time of the month. It is mostly best and horniest right at the start of my period and the following two weeks. I dont feel horny at all when it is close to my period about 1 week before. My cycle is every 25 days. so let's say about 17-25th day i dont really care to masturbate. i think the answer to the letter is sexual sensation.
- Asker
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  Then why do you said that you can't go without masturbating even a day? LOL A week before your period your sex drive become nonexistent? If you see sexy things wouldn't you get horny? (Day 17-25th) So, day (17-25th) naturally automatically dismissed sexual urge?
- lyannamormont
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  It's not "nonexistent". I dont mind if I dont masturbate, but I like to do that during those days. That's what I meant. I mean compared to the first two weeks, it is not that necessary but I still do it because it relaxes me before shower. HAHAH
- Asker
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  But if you don't masturbate (17-25th) don't it make you more horny, because abstain from masturbation make you more horny or it's only applicable for two weeks (ovulation week).
- lyannamormont
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  It doesn't make me more or less horny. I am always the same. Maybe it makes just a little less. Like 2% than normal.
- Asker
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  But you said you don't feel horny at all when it is close to your period about 1 week before. :( Several... comments Which one is true?
anaspie Xper 7
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Your girlfriend is nuts! Maybe she doesn't but there are lots of us that do.
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- Asker
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  But other girls do it only specific time of the month or on a regular basis? Do they also feel intensive urge if they go longer without it?
- anaspie
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  What... no... there is no scheduled time... how stupid would that be.
- Asker
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  But girls say... there is a scheduled time - Ovulation. They only feel urge around this time and after that they don't have any urge at all.
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- anaspie
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  That's not true... at all..
- Asker
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  Then what is women's schedule? When the get their sex drive and when they become asexual?
- anaspie
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  there is no exact schedule... and every women is different... for me Im SUPER horny when on my period while others will want nothing to do with the idea cause their in so much pain. So with that said there really is no schedule... I am also a hypersexaul person so if I could have sex every day... I would..
- Asker
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  Do you get sexual urge or erotic feelings everyday? DO you experience sexual turn on everyday?
- anaspie
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  yeah
- Asker
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  I thought women's sex drive only active around ovulation and rest of the month their sex drive become exanimate
- anaspie
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  Nope, not at all.
Sarahbl15 Xper 3
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I can go weeks without doing it I just don't feel like it. I definitely have never felt like that anything I do turns me on and only something specific can so I don't know why girls don't I just don't get urges to
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- Asker
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  Actually I can't understand your comment. Please punctuation :(
- Sarahbl15
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  It is?
- Asker
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  It is. Can you explain it easily?