How can I ask him to fuck me in the ass?

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So I really want to try to have anal sex, but I'm too scared to asked him about it.. What if he thinks it's disgusting? How can I ask?

Nylena · Accepted Answer

a) just ask him. be honest about what you want and don't put him under pressure. most guys like it and even if he doesn't, nothing happened.

b) next time when you have sex, just start fingering your ass. best while you do it in doggy position, so he can clearly see what you are doing. wait and see how he responds to it.

Stacyzee · Accepted Answer

Just ask him, "What do you think about anal sex?" See how he responds. Two people can't have great sex if they aren't open about their wants in the bedroom.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

One way is to do it spooned up together, reach back, and slide him up your ass. It's best to just tell him that's what you want because then this can happen:

I_am_repulsive · Accepted Answer

Just be direct, tell him exactly what you want and keep it simple. Many guys out there actually wants to try anal. Personally, I live vaginal better than anal, but if you ask me to, of course, I would do it.

NiallM · Answer

Most guys would jump at the chance so asking him shouldn't be a problem but it can be painful so you might wanna prepare yourself for that

SurströmmingLover · Answer

Wear this T-shirt and he'll get it

chnapo · Answer

Just tell him, or start doing it slowly, so that he can realise what is going on before it happens.

platona · Answer

i like that. i think every guy wants that almost.

Bigkid · Answer

Just talk to him I had brought it up way before my girl would have. Ask if he's ever tried it and remember lube lube lube! And he can always play with your ass with his finger make sure you are clean or he may not want to try it again and go slow :)!

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