How can I be good in bed if it's going to be my first time?

I'd really appreciate on level tips, all stupid silly comments will get shut down lol

I know that I will probably not the best he's ever had because it's going to be my first time with a guy but I'd still like to make it fun if possible.
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  • Most importantly be sure your feelings are real and true. Don’t feel like this needs to be done to make him happy.

    Sharing your body does create an important bond. To be good in bed both partners need to feel how important the moment is. Be truthful that this is your first time. He will guide you along and be sensitive to your needs. Do not expect yourself to know everything you will know when you have more experience.

    most importantly pls be sure you both are prepared with proper birth control. You don’t need to be worried about that.

    to be good, let your body relax and experience the feeling of sharing. After your first time you will be able to open up and take charge of pleasing him

    best wishes

Most Helpful Guy

  • Then just have fun with it and don't worry a thing about it.
    The most important thing for women in bed is being in the right mood and being relaxed.
    It will likely be painful if your feeling stressed or anxious, id recommend talking to your boyfriend about this so that the worries are out in the open.
    He might even know a few tricks to help get you ready. Be honest with him and yourself and remember that it's just as much about you having fun and enjoying one another as it is for him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Let me let you in on a secret. The first time will be clumsy. Always is. This is true of real “first time” and first time with a new partner.

    It takes time to learn likes/dislikes. Don’t overthink it. Better times are ahead.

    • Thank you for MHG 😊

  • Don't worry about being good, putting pressure on yourself to perform will just make you anxious and could make it painful.

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  • you really can't

  • Why don't you simply try to relax and enjoy it. That's much more important that you are good at it.

  • masturbate a lot until the day you want to have sex
    see what makes you really going and when he's going down on you guide him through your body
    another thing is giving bj, bj is really not something you can learn by reading you have to practise on a banana or cucumber, go on pornhub and search for bj tutorial and pick one that you're more comfortable with
    these two should be enough for your first night