How can I be more confident about how my vagina looks?

I have read so many things online that are supposed to make me feel confident but it doesn't help. I'm scared to fully show guys how I look like down there during sex. I have long labia lips that stick out (not too much but it shows pretty much) and I've never been eaten out of because of my fear. Please tell me what I should do?
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  • You should read this:

    Relax, You Look Fine Down There. Really. ↗

    It’s a MyTake I wrote a few years ago on my old GAG account. I conducted a survey of male users here. The vast majority of men would not reject you because of how your vulva looks.

    If you and a guy get to the point where he may see what your vulva looks like, he’s going to be thrilled at the prospect of having sex. Furthermore, you don’t need to discourage a man who wants to perform oral sex on you. He knows exactly what he’s getting into. He wants to give you pleasure. What could be better than a generous lover? Simply accept it and enjoy yourself, remembering that men are turned on by women’s bodies.

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    • sure. i followed.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Your question is brand new, so just give it time. A few won't like long labia, a few will adore long labia, and the other 80% won't give a rat's ass.
    This may have been better as a poll question, but that's OK.
    I say that because there are a lot of people who will vote, but not comment.

  • Be comfortable with your lady parts. Men don't care how it looks as long as it looks normal and hygienic. Most of the guys are even into protruding long labias and get turned on by it. It's a genital, it would look odd but the most important thing is to be confident of what you have.

    • True! I too m into long labias. Like how the pornstar Brandi Love has. So, just saying, all types of pussies are liked by many of men 😁

    • *many types of men

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  • You have what is sometimes called a full bloom. It is quite normal. What kind of evidence would satisfy you of that fact?

  • Do nothing. Don't worry about it.

    Think about it like this:

    Lots of guys primarily prefer blondes. Lots of guys primarily prefer brunettes. Lots of guys are into redheads. Lots of guys are into Asians. Lots of guys are into Caucasians. Lots of guys are into black girls. Lots of (insane) guys like huge asses. Lots of guys like small tight asses. Lots of guys like big boobs. Lots of guys like small boobs. Lots of guys are into pussies not like yours... but lots of guys are into pussies just like yours.

    So, don't worry about what your pussy looks like too much. (DO worry about what it smells like.) Even if most guys did not like the look of your pussy, the number of guys who'd be very into the look of your pussy is large enough that they are not an endangered species. You have nothing to worry about.

    One more thing:

    If you had a hideous pussy, then why do you exist? You exist because, for countless generations, there have been women with pussies like yours (and likely your mothers) and, believe it or not, those women found love and had sex with men who were perfectly fine with those pussies and, subsequently, the genes for those pussies are passed along to the next generation of women with pussies like that... all the way down to you. So, you are just another link in a line thousands of generations long of women who had pussies just like you and were attractive enough to get a man to reproduce with.

    You have no worries whatsoever.

    • Wrote a whole essay just to say don't worry about it, it's normal.

    • @IoffurAdVice Yes, but what that essay does is explain WHY. In the real world, people don't take what you say as granted for truth. You have to back it up with facts... unless you have really bad hair and are an orange president.

    • Lmao. Ok I respect it I guess

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  • I can have me and like a line of people go down on you and show you how beautiful it is. Lmao.

  • You have to understand that the vagina is not a beautiful body part no matter how it is made up. What makes it attractive and beautiful to us is what it can do and what feelings it can elicit when treated right. Do not get hung up on how your vagina looks, if a guy wants you based upon your other looks and assets and personality he is gonna still want to move forward no matter how your vagina looks as long as it can preform the functions no worries

  • A straight man is never turned off by a vagina

  • I have never seen in all my life a vagina that didn't look sexy.

    But in case of doubt, you can simply show me.

  • You should be proud of what nature gave you.
    Stop stressing over it. When your panties come off, all a guy sees is a beautiful naked girl.
    Me personally, I like girls with big pussy lips. I call that a pussy playground, I could spend all day playing down there.

  • That's actually very nice.

  • I’m going to speak from my experience I love girls that have bigger labias

  • This pisses me off because women don't need to worry about that whereas men have to worry about penis size

  • Just take your time there's no rush if you don't feel like showing them than do it when you are ready to show them it's your body no one else's.

  • Just understand all women are different, there is nothing wrong with the way you are.. tbh based on description I'd like it.. more to um suck on..