I'm sorry, but it sounds like you have a hard choice to make. Either find yourself a boyfriend to have sex with by yourself and let this threesome business go, accept not having sex with another guy if you insist she be involved, or think about ending the marriage and find someone who wants to married on your terms. Which is the more palatable option for you?
Hey, another bi guy.
But, short answer: Don't. You won't convince her, and if she doesn't want to, you shouldn't try. When and if she's comfortable with it, knowing you want to, she'll tell you. But she's not ready now, and you know she won't enjoy it like you will if you rush her into it.
And that's just selfish in my opinion.
You honestly have to talk to her about it, if she's not comfortable you have to accept it, just because you're BI doesn't mean she should make there relationship open to that if she doesn't want to.
If you have to convince her to do it, it's going to be a disaster.
She's not completely against it. We've had one before. And she's told me to just get myself a boyfriend but I couldn't do anything with anybody else unless she was there.
You might have to meet her in the middle. Getting a boyfriend might be a good compromise if she doesn't want another threesome.
I can see that side of things I really can. But I just couldn't do anything with anybody else unless my wife was there too. It's too close to cheating for me and I won't do that to her I love her too much.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!What @PippiL said. Let it go. If she doesn't want it and you "convince" her to do it, she'll regret it and resent you for making her do it. Accept what she wants.
wow, that was intense
i feel very sorry for your wife. your situation is so fucked up
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