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How can I convince my wife to have a threesome with another woman?

I have this fantasy of me, my wife and another woman having a threesome, but I don't know how to introduce the idea to my wife.
Any ideas or experience?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have known a couple of women whose husbands coerced them into it. They divorced not long after that.

    I've done the two girls and me the guy, where they just happen to go along with it and it was awkward. I have also dated two bisexual girls at the same time (I introduced them, and they lived in different cities). They were into each other sexually, and it was the best sex any of us ever had.

    Unless your wife is into women, don't even think about it. And if she is, make sure there is zero jealousy on her part. Let her pick the other woman, and they should probably be alone together before you are brought into the picture.

    The bottom line is, if she isn't excited about it, not only won't it be a good experience for any of you, but you will need a new wife.

  • If you want her to play your fantasy, let her have hers, first! What if she wants a threesome with you and another guy?
    Women aren't just playthings, and toys!! They have feelings and FANTASIES!!!
    I like confident women, that know what they like!!
    I would NEVER want a threesome with her and another woman!! Why do you need that?
    The lady I love is more than enough, and I don't want another, messing up our intimacy!!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'm not going to lie, that's a pretty risky move considering you're married. She may think you don't think she's enough in the bedroom or that you are trying to cheat on her but in a way where she gives you permission to if she's there. Tread carefully. Put some feelers out there, like asking if she's ever fantasized about someone else in the bedroom with you, or just bring up your fantasy to her and talk about it. If she doesn't seem to be into it, or flat out says no, I'm not sure pushing the issue would be good for you.

  • Talk to her about it. Talk about what the three of you would do. What activities would each person participate in, what boundaries if any there would be, etc. If she says no, then it's no, talk to her about it again in a few months...

    • This is about the best advice. However, my partner won't do a threesome but says I can get one through escorts or friends if I can. The latter being sooooo difficult.

  • When you do ask just be prepared for that slap the face or divorce papers being thrown at you if she doesn't agree. You shouldn't do it, you took a vow to only be with that one woman. Respect your wife and you're marriage.

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  • Do you have problems in your marriage. . . yet?

  • ask her if she has bisexual interests. If she doesn't, a threesome is basically out of the question.

    • ^^ yep. there's absolutely no way in sweet burning hell that 1 boy can give sufficient sexual attention to 2 straight women to keep them from getting bored out of their fucking minds. (on the other hand, 1 woman can VERY easily -- and ecstatically, I might add -- absorb all the sexual attention that 2 boys have to give. oh yeah.)

    • @redeyemindtricks heh. have you ever seen a clockwork orange?

    • Seen, no. Read, yes. Why? My god, I read that book almost 25 years ago smh

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  • all you can do is ask how she feels about it

  • You have to start out by watching porn with her. find some videos where its girl girl guy. Do that for a few weeks while having sex forplay. Eat her out while she's watching it.
    Itll put thoughts into her mind. Then ask her if she's ever had a threesome in her lifetime. Or if she's ever had thoughts about woman.

  • You are crazy if you bring another person into your marriage. You are asking for trouble.

  • You can discuss the fantasy, but don't push the situation. My wife introduced threesomes in our marriage by inviting her girlfriend over to put on a show and then let me join them. When the idea comes from the woman, it goes a lot smoother. Trying to talk someone into something has a much lower success rate.

    Just playing Devil's Advocate here for a moment, if you bring up the fantasy, what would your reply be if she said yes as long as you could also do a threesome with another guy?

  • Tell her you will bring her home a larger stud so you can watch him fuck the hell out of her 2 feet away I mean really up close and personal then she can watch you have your way with another woman so what's wrong with the one you married but I think she will probably fall for it if you bring home big Black stud that should be the ticket good luck with your fantasy!!! Yeah yeah

  • You can't !! The overwhelming vast majority of women would be outright disgusted by the idea , let alone actually doing it. She would have to have very strong bisexual leanings too , most threesomes end up as very far from the actual fantasy & cause problems later.

  • easy dont

  • Perhaps promise her a future 3-some with another MAN, if you can do it YOUR way THIS time?

  • A good husband is one who will respect his wife wishes and not pressure her into doing something she don't feel comfortable with. So don't even try to do that. If you want some go out and buy, the are plenty of sex shops where u can get many girls as u want, and fulfill dream. U can even extend into foursome or fivesome.

  • what if she desires a boy for threesome. Will it be okay for you?

    • No, and I don't t think she does.

    • then how you come across that it will be okay for her to share you with some one else

  • I'd kill you with an axe. So tread carefully.

  • Be careful with threesomes 😊
    I did a threesome with my ex boyfriend, but then i found out that i liked girls better. So i dumped him and now i'm with the girl lol.
    Sorry my bad English.

    • nice answer..

    • @billar thanks 😊

    • welcome..

  • by offering to do the same for her if she wants to have a 3some with another dude.

  • don't push her if she doesn't want to

  • Well if you have to "convince" her, it's not a good idea. Just ask would she would like it, if she says no, it's a no.

    And if you do it, you better make sure the other woman doesn't steal the show.

  • It's completely up to you, if you want to have a threesome you have to make the effort and take the risk. It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission although for sex related things I don't know if that's a good option.

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