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Sexual Health How can I forgive my boyfriend for having sex with another woman?
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My boyfriend told me he had sex with her for a whole year so he could get out of her and free stuff. He live with me and my two sons age 4 and 5.
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He said he got over 10k from her in one year. He said he did that so he can pay his bills
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14 34Forgiveness is nice but you can never forget what happened. I tried to forgive and ended up wasting 15 years with the cheater. Each situation is different but I know in my situation I would have been better leaving back then.
Simply don't, he doesn't love you
You don't.
He will cheat again, 100%.
Forgive then go. You don't deserve that
Think about it he was having sex with another girl for a whole year just to get free stuff out of her does that really make any sense does that make you feel better that he was getting free stuff out of her that was for him not you and I understand that you have a four and five year old but if he did it for a year then what makes you think he can't do it again you going to stick around to find out the only thing I can tell you is good luck is anywhere that I can be of assistance just let me know
You may not be able to. It's entirely up to you. If you can find a reason for why he did it that will "ensure" that it won't happen again (drunk, on drugs, depressed and drunk, pressured) then it should be easier. If the reason he cheated is inexcusable then you may not ever be able to do so.
Well he said he did it to get money from the girl
How much? Did he get it? Will he use it for both of you? Quite honestly if it was a lot of money I'd probably seriously consider having sex with someone other than my girlfriend.
Over 10,000 in total
Since it wasn't a single time I question whether or not you should stay with him. While 10k is nothing to sneeze at, it's not a lot for a whole year of cheating on you.
I don't know exactly amount that's why I said over 10k. I know she was giving him money every time she got paid.
Still to cheat on you for a year without enough money to last for a lifetime isn't worth it in my opinion.
so he's a prostitute
Would seem that way. You want to go with someone that takes money from someone for sex? Hope you get him tested regularly. Don’t have to be a fortune teller to know what he is going to tell you every time he cheats.
That's not really prostitution or otherwise a dinner date would be considered prostitution if sex was involved that night and the guy paid. This happens all the time.
@red324 she's paying his bills. he's a prostitute
only a weak low esteem person would stay with him
That doesn't deserve forgiveness.
Why do you need to forgive him? Maybe it's better to find a more loyal and reliable man?
Fuck another guy so you're even
You just don't. It's time to say goodbye and good riddance
⚫Allow that it happened and give him a second chance if you think you can forget about it.
You shouldn't. Dump his ass
Still, get rid of him
Because he's doing the same thing to you by living with you, probably for free?
You can't
By take revenge
You don't
Fuck another man first
you have proof?
Nothing serious there women like these things. You will forgive him and everything will be fine. He's bad boy so that's good thing
Hard question do you really want to forgive him
he will do it again