Guys, How can I get my husband to stop looking at porn and only do sexual things with me?

This is very important to me because we are growing older and I want everything to come from me. Porn is bad for men who are having sex with someone they have been with for a long time. It eventually diminishes their attraction for their long term girlfriend/wife.

I’m still in good shape and healthy, but one woman cannot compete with a bunch of other 18-25 year old women in porn/tv/internet. What can I do and say to my husband to help him not look at porn or masturbate. I’d like to have sex every day whenever he wants, but we only have sex about 3-4 times a week.

he says he doesn't look at porn or masturbate. However I don’t believe him. Wouldn’t he want more sex if he wasn’t do those things. He also cums very fast (60 seconds) and mostly wants doggystyle in a rough way which makes me think he does look at porn/masturbate.

what could your girlfriend/wife say or do to that would make you decide to stop looking at porn/masturbating?

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  • Search how often do couples have sex and you'll see 3-4 times a week is pretty good for married couples. You have to be content that you may not have a perfect sex life.

    Like others have suggested, one way you can turn him on more is to play into his kinks, certain fetish, roleplay, cosplay etc. If you are willing to adapt, you can ask to watch porn with him as foreplay. It could be a bonding experience.

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  • You shouldn't act on assumptions, cause they won't always be true, find out for sure if he is tell him he doesn't need it that you'll fulfill his desires, maybe then he will tell you his kinks and if you fulfill them, he shouldn't go back to porn

    • That's of course if his kink isn't more than one woman

    • How can I find out for sure if he’s doing that? Especially if he’s really good at hiding it or is looking at work? I haven’t caught him looking at it or masturbating. He completely denies it and says he hasn’t masturbated since 2015 which is so difficult for me to believe.

    • Why is it so hard to believe?

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  • Google search:

    Psychology Today, Masturbation and Marriage

  • Porn is not the problem. Your are unhappy with your sex life. That's a real problem. What does he say about that?

  • Lasting couples watch porn together.
    Also if he cums that fast during sex, he's almost certainly not masturbating.

  • Have you chopped off your hair?
    How much weight did you gain over the last decade?
    Did you color your hair?
    Boobs small or starting to sag?

    It can affect whether a guy gets wood around you.

    • My hair is below my shoulders. I weigh the same as I did in high school 112 pounds. My boobs are kind of small but don’t sag at all. He gets turned on by me but it’s not every day that he shows it or how much I’d like. If he doesn’t have anything to compare me to, then he should still get turned on by me? i think porn makes you lose attraction to someone especially if you’ve been with them so a looooong time.

    • You do realize that after awhile being with the same person, the sexual chemistry fades right? We are actually not monogamous creatures whatsoever. How tall are you at 112? Small boobs might get boring for him after awhile, are the porn videos of chics with big knockers? I'm just keepin it real, I've dating the itty bitty titty committee before myself and eventually want something "more". Have your looks changed at all in the last decade

    • I don’t know about not being monogamous because humans are a lot more intelligent than other animals and there are a few animals who are monogamous. If what you say is true then I think looking at porn can only make it all worse for my relationship. I don’t think I’ve changed much at all. I get mistaken for being 20 all the time. I haven’t seen him looking at porn so I would have no idea what he would look at but it’s a suspicion of mine.

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  • Is he in the same bed with you every night?
    Or is he in another woman's bed?
    Which should you be most concerned with?
    I fully understand your frustration.
    Have you talked with him about it?

  • Depends on if he doing all the work during sex, each and every time.

  • Encourage him. Look at what porn he's watching and duplicate. Something that can get him out of porn. Don't be shy even if you aren't that person.

    Guys, How can I get my husband to stop looking at porn and only do sexual things with me?
  • If she's sexually available to me I don't look at porn.

  • Happy to chat about this, want to drop me a message?

  • Smash his phone. Cut off your internet. Pretty soon his only options in life will be sexual things with you.

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