How Can I Handle My Wife's Sexual Past?

Just over a year ago I married a sweet, pretty religious girl. She was always dressed well, usually in an elegant skirt. She was well-educated, polite and soft-spoken. She didn't drink or smoke or swear, and looked offended if anyone swore around her. She was well-behaved and we never had sex before marriage. I didn't really expect her to be a virgin at 27, but didn't inquire about her past.

One night something just came over me and I impulsively asked her if she would perform oral sex. I don't know why I asked that. Then I recoiled, thinking that she would be horrified. But she wasn't horrified. To my utter shock she looked delighted and went right down on me with her mouth.

I just don't know what to think or do. My wife is clearly very experienced at performing oral sex. She deep throats me while maintaining eye contact. She teases my penis with her tongue before taking it in her mouth. She nuzzles her face right into my crotch and licks my balls. She smiles at me with cum all over her mouth.

Where has she been to learn how to do this? I have no doubt that she is extremely experienced at doing this.

She came up with the idea of giving me a blowjob in the car. She knows how to position herself just right to give a blowjob in a car. Obviously she has had a lot of practice. I get the impression that giving a blowjob in a car brings back memories for her. Sometimes if we are driving at night she will ask me if I want to find a quiet parking lot or wait until we get home.

I just don't know what to do or how to deal with this. There is the woman that I married and then there is this woman in my bedroom. She didn't deceive me because I didn't ask about her past. My wife has a way of understating things and she once looked directly at me and told me that she wasn't always into her religion. I now realize that was her way of telling me that she has a past.
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  • her past is none of your business

    • Yes it is bozo, it’s his wife

    • @euroiko get fucked betch

  • If she hasn't given you AIDS , then let sleeping dogs be. If you divorced her , it would not be a real divorce to God and unless you remained single the rest of your life , it would be adultery with any other woman whether married or not

  • Are you serious? Are you really upset that you wife gives great blowjobs?
    Who cares where and how she learn? She is yours now righ? Screw the past.

  • Is she is the first girl in your life? If not, why are you sensitive about her past?

  • I found out my wife was a teenage prostitute. Oh well, I love her so I married her. What does it matternif your wife had sucked a dick before? Its okay to suck yours but, she is a bad person if she did it before she was with you? If she never met you she should never suck dick just in case one day she meets you? I think you need to watch her suck a nice fat one to help you get Over it.

  • everyone has a past, unless you are 2 minutes old, you have a long past... the only thking that matters is who she is "NOW" just be tahnkful that you married this "wonderful, loving" woman

  • whatever a man or woman does before married is no one's business yours either be happy she makes you feel good has you said you didn't expect a virgin so be happy with that and have a happy life with her and consider yourself lucky

  • Why you didn't ask her about it?

  • 1. You should’ve asked before you got married, dumbass
    2. You won’t get over it, I couldn’t handle my ex having 2 bodies before me and left her to search for a virgin wife.
    3. You can always ask her now how many guys she’s been with, don’t jump to conclusions without knowing it come from her.

  • you always ask a women about her sexual past lol

    she is thinking about another guy
    when she does those things

    I PROMISE

  • Cool Troll story bro.

  • Her past is none of your business and there is nothing to deal with. If you can't live with that, get divorced and let her enjoy her life.

  • All these guys here are gross, they don't mind a slut having been railed by 50 guys just because she can give them good sex. It's pathetic to have no respect or standards other than getting your dick wet. Cucks all of ya.

  • She probably has a high body count like most women and you should have found out before you got married if it bothers you.