How can I have an orgasm during sex?

  • I'm 20 and I've had 2 serious relationships before. I've had sex many times with both of them. But I never had an orgasm, not even with fingering or such. And I only masturbate by grinding to a pillow or something. I've tried using my hand many times but I don't really enjoy it. Is there something wrong with me?
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  • Sometimes our interconscious holds us back for so many different reasons but there are ways that you can have an orgasm if you DM me I can tell you it's going to kinky but I mean at least give it a try and see what happens because it's one of the most beautiful feelings in the world as a guy that is my whole goal is making it all about the girl there's a lot of guys that are just very selfish but I want to make it all about the girls and make her have the best orgasm she's ever had in her life all guys should be doing that but I think 98% of them are pretty selfish

Most Helpful Guy

  • Do you orgasm with you grind on the pillow? You need clitoral stimulation. Lots of women can't orgasm through penetration. Use a vibrator on your clit while having sex. Involve your guy. Have him use it on you

Most Helpful Girls

  • My best advice is to work on your mind first. The more "goal oriented" you become, the more elusive the orgasm will be. Just lie back, relax, and do what feels good. Eventually it will come.

  • Welcome to the club. I physically cannot orgasm myself either. There is nothing wrong with you. Some women just can't orgasm during penetrative sex

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  • Get a magic wand. I promise, you'll get an orgasm 😉

    • well that's actually helpful. I'll try it thanks 😊

    • You're very welcome, good luck

  • Have you tried a vibrator?

  • Have your guy give you lots of oral pleasure before penetration thst usually works for me giving a woman multiple orgasms.

  • Nothing wrong with you. Next time, try this.

    Climb on top of the guy, and massage his cock between your pussy lips, moving back and forth. Do that until you cum, then have him enter you. While grinding, feel free to play with yourself, as well as moving his hands to where it feels good for you.

  • Sounds like you're probably just self conscious and need to figure out a way to get out of your own head.

  • Get married first

  • Play with your clit when a guy is penetrating you.

  • I don't know about what you can do but one of my best female friends has never gotten off from a guy. She only could with herself.

  • Look for a toy or look up hands free orgasm frequencies on YouTube

  • Youbare doing masturbation wrong. First of all you need to get what you love and then teach that to your boyfriend.

    • And there are techniques for your hands as well. If u need help, hit me up. Many girls have problems with cumming - but it is easy to resolve.

  • Practice

  • no, it just your thing that turns you on have you ever thought of doing scissors with another woman it would be just like you pillow but better

  • go find a virgin
    im a virgin too
    virgins are good masturbaters and they will piroritise your orgasm over theirs
    its my opinion i dont know about other guys or maybe i have never experinced real sexual encounter i dont know how it feels !

  • Probably need something with a strong vibrator.

  • It means, you have very love sex drive, so consult some sex specialist

  • You need clitoral stimulation.

  • Nah there is nothing wrong with you. Some people can't orgasm. Its just how it is. at least make sure your partner comes.

  • I have heard of this happening, but I don't know why.