How can I help my co-star with these real sex scenes?

[Anonymous]

I'm an actress and I'm making a movie with some real sex scene (it's not a porn and it shouldn't be much explicit once edited). By the way the thing is that the actor that has these sex scenes with me cums too fast. I don't think it's my fault, but I see that he is a little bit embarassed and in difficulty for this reason. I've already tried to help him, ignoring the moment in which he was cuming and going on like it was nothing, but it hasn't helped. I saw him talking with the director and explaining that, clearly, if he knew that he had this kind of problem, he would have not proposed himself for a movie like this. I don't know if it's just anxiety, maybe he's embarassed for the situation (even if in the room while shooting there are just four people, so not an entire crew, it's still embarassing), I don't know if he has understood the fact that two of the women crew had a little bit fun of him (even if I don't think so) because they think his penis is little (actually I don't think so, it's not big, but I would say more or less average, not really little) or if it's for me. I actually even like him a little bit, there is nice relationship between us and I find him sweet and fun, I don't know if I could do something to make him feel more comfortable or to make him last longer. We never talked about the problem explictly, he just asked sorry many times (he feels sorry for the fact that he shouldn't cum in my mouth or inside me), but I always say to him not to worry. I had thought to invite him to have some sex sessions privatly, so that maybe he could get used to it and be more ready while shooting, but I don't know if it could be a good thing to do. Even because I don't want to maybe like him even more than how much I like him right now: I don't want to fall in love for a collegue. Can you give me some suggestions? What do you think? Why he's having these problems?

[integrale77]

It might be worth working on doing things together that put in positions that look like your fucking but there is no actual penetration. E. g. sitting on the shaft of his dick and grinding back and forth.
You'll still get stimulation but him less so.

Also starting with a slow pace and keep changing position or slowing up when he gets overstimulated. This will help him train to last longer and the longer he does this the more he will be accustomed to the level of stimulation so it will need more to cum.

If it's about inexperience knowing when he needs to slow up or stop tell him to put some porn on and have a wank and learn to stop when needed and aim to last the length of the film.

[Bananaman177]

Scratch and howl and hiss and bite his nipples and act like a cougar-cat-demon-witch in heat and how much you wanna bet that shit fucks him up so bad, he lasts longer.

Because it's probably not going to be all that pleasurable, I mean you should just be tearing his ass up, cat scratch fever, digging for his backbone.

Tell the director, "Look motherfucker, this next take is it, don't fog the lenses and let's fucking wrap this shit up! Goddamn!"

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mIMhqZaR59c

[Jessie91331]

A couple of things... just go off and have sex a few times, no pressure, just fun sex. Let him get used to you. Or, give him head first, take that first shot away, he should last longer for the scene. Or finally, get some numbing gel. rub it on his dick.

[1stranger]

He may be a little nervous. You can make him comfortable/relax.

[AustinMan]

This is pretty common. Two things: he needs to exercise some self control and if the shot will let you, he can pause for a minute when he gets close. Second is to have him masturbate before.

[OlderAndWiser]

I am guessing that NO one believes this story.

[IlluminatiExposed0]

IKR? I can't believe how many people are actually giving serious answers!

[OlderAndWiser]

@IlluminatiExposed0 Incredibilmente!

[lanadelrey25]

Now I'm intrigued, what movie?

[Asker]

I can't say the name just for privacy for him

[lanadelrey25]

I understand

[bowenw]

It sounds like he's very nervous about performing and where he should cum. Tell him you understand that there's a lot of pressure on the two of you. Try telling him if he feels like he's getting close too soon to slow down or take a break for a couple of minutes. You could try using a lot of lube to reduce the sensation and the likelihood of him cumming. There is also desensitizing lube that may help. Also try opening your legs wider during vaginal sex to reduce the contact. When it's time for him to cum keep reassuring him you want him to cum inside you or in your mouth to make the film as realistic as possible. He could be worried about cumming in your mouth because he feels you may not like the taste. To alleviate this, taste some of his cum while he's watching after a scene where he ejaculates other than in your mouth. Swallow it to prove to him you're okay with it.

[Jamie05rhs]

I actually think that your idea of private practice sessions is a good one. But yeah, there's always a danger of getting attached to people who you have sex with. Why you decided to participate in this film I have no idea.

[scorpy04]

I think your being a little nieve Why would someone make a scene of real sex just to edit the explicit side out Sex sells It sounds he will give you or show you the edited version But he probably have customers for the unedited version I wouldn't do it unless your happy to star in this porn scene

[Asker]

I know that the most explicit scenes will be edited, so they will result less explicit. I think that the fact is, in the end, that it won't be clear if we are having real sex even if you can see a fellatio or penetration

[scorpy04]

Well I can only repeat what I really see is a porn film being made which fetches s great deal of money

[Gedaria]

Easiest way is just think he is the best guy you know and really want to have sex with. Clear your mind of anyone being there.
I use to do life modelling. Sat there for a couple of hours, totally naked.
I use to think of things bi need to do in my work. A bit like daydreaming
One girl asked me do I get embarrassed. I said no
I was only embarrassed of my body she it's a nice body
But the hard pose is standing put one leg on a chair.
Exposes my cock , it small when it not erect.
But some of the students do me proud.
So if I was you approach it like that...

[Twalli]

Have sex with him or have him masturbate to orgasm shortly before the scene so he lasts longer.

[IlluminatiExposed0]

If it's not porn it's not a real sex scene. If you're making a movie someone should have explained to you what acting is.

[Asker]

There are some movie directors, even not in porn, that asks for real sex on set

[In_Trance]

yeah, ok

[Jerre]

I would have private meetings with him. Think once you fucked him, you would be able to slow down his cumming so quick.

[Valnac]

It’s a little blue pill called Viagra.

[Nice222]

Tell him to jerk off a couple of hours before the scene. Cumming inside of you is a little too much. He should at least have enough control to pull out.

[somegoodbigblkd]

its very hard to perform on camera on demand I had a chance when I was younger and it was difficult then would be impossible now for me. I hate other people around me especially men and with my dick out I am very self concious of myself to much now even pro porno men have problems its why the norm usually use drugs or shots to dope them up

[gandolph3]

make him cum before the scene, maybe it will slow him

[Asker]

The thing is that he lost his erection and then he take a lot of time (like hours) to recover. I think that this has never happened to him

[gandolph3]

if it is not porn, and scene will be edited, why would it matter

[gandolph3]

What type of movies do you usually do

[Asker]

I've made generally all indie movies, just one big production but I had a secondary little role. My first movie has been a romantic movie, not a comedy, it was dramatic (it had a good success, it has even received some awards in some festivals, it has been a great satisfaction), two romantic comedies and two thrillers. This is my sixth movie, again an indie, pretty similar to my first one (even in that movie there was a real sex scene); but this is more a dark love story than a dramatic one. My dream is to act in some dramatic movie, but not romantic: I have a lot of fun and it seems to me pretty natural acting in these romantic movies, but they're not my favorite genre.

[gandolph3]

Would i recognize you or any of your movies

[gandolph3]

I would like to watch them

[Asker]

You can have some explicit sex scenes even in movies that are not porn. The director wants us to have some timing for the oral sex scene and for the penetration scene. This second one should be massively edited. I think viewers will be able to understand that there is penetration, but they won't see too much; the blowjob scene will be much more explicit and I don't know how much it will be cut, even if he told me that it will be edited as well. He is against using fake genitalia, he told us from the first moment, in fact he doesn't seem to be considering this option even with the problems of my collegue.

[gandolph3]

Would you follow me and tell your movies, so i may watch them, i would not share anything

[Asker]

I want to remain anonymous, sorry.

[gandolph3]

I understand, but you have me very curious about your movies

[gandolph3]

Could you give me a hint to guide me toward one of your movies

[Anonymous]

Take him in private and do a JOI with him and have him edge until he lasts a lot longer. Then once you've gotten a good deal of staying power suck and fuck him to see if you can get him to last longer.

[Anonymous]

Fire those 2 female crew members that made fun of his dick and burn their houses down. Then take him home and have sex with him over and over until he lasts like a champ.

[Asker]

Ahahah maybe that would be too much

[Opinion Owner]

No, it's not enough. After you burn their houses down fill their cars full of bees.