How can I learn if my sis is lesbian?

She has a close girl friend, they always sleep together. I am curious about their bedroom.
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Superb Opinion

  • Woah there buddy. You're my age, I could care less if my sister (s) were into poles or holes. That's their business. If she seems happy, just let her be happy and stop with the inquisition. If she is, and wants you to know, she'll talk about it. Otherwise, how is it any familial duty to figure anything sexual out with your siblings unless they're being abused?

    If you see bruising on the neck, or a limp, ask about it, look into it, maybe buy a tree and dig a hole. Otherwise, would you want your sister that interested in your sex life?

Most Helpful Guy

  • She may be bi or a lesbian, or simply messing around, or totally innocent.

    Also depending on age a lot of girls sleep together if stopping at mates.

    simply sleeping together does not mean she is bi or lesbian.

    Watch how you approach this, you could really upset her and totally lose a sisters respect.

Most Helpful Girl

  • respect her privacy. It’s not your business until she tells you.

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  • I don't see how this is any of your business. You can ask her and if she answers truthfully then that's good. If she doesn't you should leave it at that and not meddle in her private life.

  • Ask her

  • Just ask them.

    • can't ask directly :( if she is les she will ignore. if she is not, she will be uncomfortable

    • Then you will just have to remain curious but not know. By the way, why does it matter to you anyway?

  • It is ok to talk about sex after all. Does she have a boyfriend or has she ever had a boyfriend? Maybe start a conversation about LGBT issues and see how she reacts and during the conversation mention that you have no issues with LBGT people.

  • Ask her

    • really? i dont think she will be honest if it is true

    • can't hurt. Long as you’re respectful and she knows you’re not out to cause trouble, it should be fine.

    • I courage her about every situation. but we dont talk about sexual things

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  • Just be respectful and she'll tell you if she is when she's ready

  • It's none of your business.

    • Kiss her. Or walk up to her naked ND ask her opion on your body

  • Ask her. Does it matter if she is..

  • Dude. You’re in your 30s. You seriously don’t know how to go up to another adult and ask what’s going on?

  • You ask her

  • You really shouldn’t be at your age...

  • She is gay

  • I think this is normal behavior for girls. If you haven’t figured out that she’s gay already she probably isn’t, or the time isn’t right and she’ll come out when she’s ready