How can I learn to squirt?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never squirted before and my husband would like to see if he can make me. Any tips for how to accomplish this?

[PositiveFlight]

Don’t make the mistake of expecting things from yourself that perhaps are not possible. A lot of women are very hard on themselves when it comes to sex because they feel pressure to perform or they feel that something is somehow wrong with their body. The truth is, there is not a thing wrong with your body.

First of all, squirting is usually just a woman in porn who is urinating while acting like she’s having an orgasm. The whole idea is to drive up shock value because men are so visually driven. Men see themselves spew semen and somehow place a woman that she should do the same thing when she reaches climax. But if we take a closer look at the physiology between men and women, we both have different roles when it comes to having sex. Women are the receiver and therefore don’t need to abruptly release fluid. Men on the other hand abruptly release seminal fluid in order to inseminate the woman. So there’s an obvious reason of why both bodies behave differently. Both still feel massive amounts of pleasure during climax, but for different reasons. A man’s pleasure is to make him want to reach the point of no return to expel semen, while a woman’s body during climax is to contract internally and push the semen up closer past the cervix.

Unfortunately, your husband has some expectations of your body that are not reality. Pornography causes a lot of women to feel inferior in the bedroom. Other than urinating, the reality is that you may never end up squirting otherwise. That is perfectly OK. He needs to accept it and you should be kind to yourself. Sex is not a porn flick. It is a beautiful act between two people who love each other of becoming one flesh. Let things flow naturally and just enjoy each other the way your bodies work.

[Asker]

Thank you for your kind reply!

[PositiveFlight]

Your very welcome

[integrale77]

First of all it's not always possible for all women.
When me and my fiancé first started having sex she felt like she was getting very wet. When I moved my focus to fingering her and stimulating her g-spot it pushed her over the edge and she squirted.

It was all new to her and she was a little self conscious about it to start with but I reassured her it was normal and she was special. Now it's difficult for her not to squirt.

[summiter]

Some women just don't squirt. Have him give you a lot of oral first and see if that helps.

[Anonymous]

Just pee