How can I let my boyfriend know he turns me on?

[Anonymous]

I've just recently started dating this guy who has never shown me his body before. And he doesn't post topless pics on FB or Instagram or anything. We do make out but he always has his shirt on so I don't know how his bod looks like.

Until last night that is. For some reason, when I asked him what he was up to, he sent me the photo below saying he just gymmed. And boy is he ripped... I got immediately turned on seeing just what he was hiding underneath those shirts all this time!

How can I let him know/show him that his muscles turn me on so much, without coming across as overly superficial or thirsty? And if it comes to it that he takes off his shirt to show me his body, will he expect that I go all the way with him?

Or is he just showing off just like a lot of gymbuff boys do?

[Anonymous]

As he already sent you the picture, he probably won't mind if you compliment him, but if you want to proceed even more subtly without actually mentioning his muscles or body, these are some ways to make it less obvious that my girlfriend did when we started dating.

* Take a shower or bath together
* Go to a warmer place where it's normal to be shirtless
* Play truth & dare, strip poker etc. This can also give your relationship another spark.

[Asker]

So what did your girlfriend do 1st time to get you off your shirt & show your muscles?

[Opinion Owner]

I'll tell more later. I have to study now :)

[Opinion Owner]

We played strip poker the first time, which she won so that I had to get off my shirt and show off. After that she gradually worked up the courage to ask me to take off my shirt herself.

[Asker]

I see. To take off the shirt so she can feel/lick your muscles? Does she do that outside of bed too?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes she does sometimes.

[Asker]

I see! I can let you know how it went down with my boyfriend if you wanna know. Haha

[Opinion Owner]

Sure, you can update when you like :)

[GingerGuy]

Don't overthink this. Just say it. Just tell him "that was a hot picture!" We guys like compliments also! And it just shows interest, which is important. Girls generally don't say anything and you really need to more. We like to feel physically desired also.

[Asker]

But from verbal compliment, how can i subtly move onto physically appreciating his body?

[GingerGuy]

While you're making out, why not lift up his shirt and touch his stomach/chest etc. He'll get the hint lol. Or flat out ask him if he'll take his shirt off. Nothing wrong with asking :) He's your boyfriend after all. Again, this just shows interest on your part and desire, ALL GOOD THINGS!

[Asker]

Dunno if i should feel pervy.. but I honestly wanna feel & lick him all over. I just dunno if he’ll be taken aback by that! Especially since it’ll be the 1st time

[GingerGuy]

He might be at first a little, but it'll be GOOD and brief. He'll love it that you took the initiative (again, shows interest and that you're into him). I would. And it's not "pervy", he's your boyfriend!! I'd want my girlfriend to do whatever she felt/wanted to me whenever she wanted to do it lol. And her taking the imitative would be a huge turn on!

[Asker]

Haha. I guess perhaps I should start with some light touching/tracing of the bumps of his 6 pack? After that then judging from his response, see if i can grope his pecs & start using my tongue & lips. Or would you suggest any other way to ease him into it?

[GingerGuy]

No that's perfect, it'll likely just naturally progress from there. But you'll know in the moment whether to do more or not by how he's responding. But you have nothing to worry about I'm sure. Just do it! :) lol

[GingerGuy]

My guess is if you start touching underneath his shirt, he'll start touching you also and it's a go! I can guarantee he's not going to mind though. And if he does, it won't be YOU, it'll be some other issue he has, in which case ask him what's wrong. But I can't see this happening.

[Asker]

I guess if it comes down to it, i’m ready to do it with him. Hehe. Like, I honestly am excited to experience a masculine, hard body during love making.

[kittycat119]

I've seen this exact same question asked on here months ago with the same pic. I highly doubt this is true

[reptocarl]

Tell him

[owens97]

say u turn me on

[BOUNTYGUY9]

talk and tell him is that your guy what a mess he is