How can I make a more exciting blowjob?

i give him many blowjobs, so now it's not that exciting, i mean, we get horny and all. But i want something new in bed. We've already had anal sex. I would never do a threesome, he wouldn't either thank God. Any ideas?
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  • There are a few things you might attempt to make a more exciting blowjob. I’m going to make some assumptions here, since you didn’t describe how you currently do it with him, but here are a few of my suggestions of the following:

    First – You could hold his testicles while performing oral sex on him. Squeezing of the male testicles can lead to a heightened sense of pleasure, especially if the guy is a budding masochist and enjoys a level of pain. Hold and message the testicles while you are slowly moving your mouth and down on your penis, and alternate opening and closing your lips around the shaft.

    Second – The male penis is the most if not THE most sensitive area of a male’s body. What you might attempt trying is while you are sucking on him, let your teeth softly graze along the shaft. Not hard, unless he’s into a level of pain here were not discussing, but since the penis is very sensitive, using your teeth to cause more friction along the shaft while you continue to hold pressure with your lips might lead to great orgasmic pleasure in the end.

    Third – Holding the base of the penis while you’re sucking and alternate between holding light and tight on the shaft as you are suckling up and down. Don’t squeeze too hard or you could potentially cause the penis to lose erection, but if you alternate the pressure it is possible to sustain the erection for a longer period of time, not to mention the orgasm will be more explosive, in general.

    Fourth – If you are not already doing so, be sure to involve your tongue in the blowjob. The tongue is a very sensitive part of the body as well. Use your tongue to lick the penis as you’re sucking it. Use the tongue to lick and then your lips to lightly suckle along the testicles, as well. The erotic aspect of this alone might bring a new measure of pleasure for him as he watches you use his penis like a lollipop.

    Hope this helps…..

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    And then there's menthol too.
    Don't overdo all that or he'll mistake you for a 'pro'. (it's not for kiddies)

Most Helpful Girls

  • There are so, so, so many things you can do in the bedroom with your partner. Also, if there's passion and sexual compatibility between two people, sex never gets boring. The lack of excitement might be an underlying problem.

    • well i know it never gets boring, but i want more excitement!!

    • I dunno, try light bondage or sensory deprivation or something. Don't know what kind of sex you're having, because holy shit my sex life with my partner is phenomenal-- boring isn't a thing that even remotely exists.

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  • I'd say spice it up with a new rhythm! Just like start licking kissing work up to maybe even deep throating (if you have that talent) slow it down, work it back up. Try new techniques.

  • have you tried role playing? making up stories maybe? or maybe do a trip poker to spice up the tension, or a really naughty truth or dare

    • Good idea! thankss

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  • Ever tried biting his man-nipples? Some guys like that.
    Maybe just casually slide a finger near, and around his bottom? (Most guys think it would 'Make them Gay' if they play with the sensations they can have from anal play!!
    You could also try some Role-playing, and dress-up, to get to the BJ? That works for some guys!! Cheerleaders, Catholic School girls, or tight Yoga pants, just a few ideas. . .

  • Look up deepthroat you might gag after that. Also put some bondage into that and it will be even hotter.

  • How about snowballing afterwards?

  • Have fireworks and get Celine Dion to sing for you while you have sex.

  • Anal/prostate fingering during a BJ will liven things up for him quite nicely.

  • Use ice in your foreplay. It can be really fun.

  • you must have a idea?

  • Here's a sex move I invented -

    Fill your mouth with ice cold champagne, then put his balls in there too and swirl with your tongue.

    I call it, then champagne tea bag.

    *Warning - he might fall in love with you afterwards.

  • Blindfold him and tie him up?

    Slip a finger up his ass?

    Blindfold yourself and be waiting naked in bed for him?

  • You don't need to make blowjobs "more" exciting. By the very nature of putting your mouth on a guy's dick and sucking it until he releases his sperm in your mouth, it is already exciting. Just enjoy your sperm stop over thinking it.

  • Play games with him!!

    I answered a similar question 34 seconds ago. I have a game for you guys.

    Strip him, tie him to a bed, strip in front of him, and then blindfold him. Then just let him lie there while you check Facebook or take a shower. If he looks like he's getting bored walk over and brush his thigh or his abs or his penis! Kiss him, or suddenly squeeze him. Keep it up until he's begging and moaning for you.

    It's all about the tease.

    Also:
    Strip him, then strip in front of him, then tell him to sit on the bed. 3 rules: no touching himself, no moving from the bed, no complaining!
    Stand as far away from him as you can then ask him questions about yourself.
    "What's my favorite color" "Who introduced us" "where did we first meet" "where were we going when we first rode in your car together" "what bra size do I wear" "What's my favorite position"
    Every time he gets it right you step towards him. every time he gets it wrong you step away!!
    Trust me, it will turn him on like mad, and frustrate him mercilessly! Plus you control the difficulty of the questions, so if you feel he's doing too well, or he's getting bored, or YOU can't take it anymore, just change the difficulty! If you're a pro, make the questions more and more sexual and romantic (like I did above), while also balancing the difficulty. You can also wave your hips, rub yourself, swagger and tease.
    Maybe the closer you get the more clothes you take off, the farther you get the more you put on!

    Also regarding the blow job thing: use the grapefruit method!
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  • Use your tongue

  • https://youtu.be/J985aHRXLIU


    Watch the whole video. she is a head master

  • Eye contact, passion, confidence, deep throat, caressing balls, switching between licking sucking teasing, touching area around balls etc are some of my suggestion for girls while giving a bj to me :p

  • Put a butt plug (regular 6 inches) covered with a anal that causes stimulation up your ass and wear a skin tight bikini bottom to hold it in. Then blow him. Whether it works for you or not it will be a new experience.

  • Put some whip cream or Ketchup on his cock and suck it off

  • Fireworks is always exciting. Supprize him by setting off a big firework in the bedroom. I mean burning phosphorous and everything.

    Roller coasters are exciting. Give him a blowjob on a rollercoaster.

    River rafting rapids is exciting...

  • You can do it to me and I will be very excited