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Sexual Health My fiancé and I wanna try anal and I’m definitely open to it but I know it’s very painful, however I got lube and I have a dildo to practice. Any other tips or advice?
How can I make anal less painful for my first time?
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7 26lube lots of lube
Do a good practice before and tell him to follow a good skill, proper way to do an anal.
Lots of lube and relax
Get a butt plug from small to the size he is and wear it for a while it should help
He has to make you cum first, at that point your anus will be relaxed and alightly dilated ready for secondary hole penetration less painful.
You gotta have lube. The toys help, too, because you can adjust to the size. My girlfriend and I have done anal (both giving and receiving with a strapon) with each other and the toy definitely helps loosen things up. If it doesn’t work out the first time, though, don’t give up. Anal is totally different and sometimes things go unexpectedly wrong where anal is just off the table that night. Then, other nights, it just works out really well. Good luck. You’re doing the right things to prepare. If you can comfortably fit the toy in, you should be fine.
take a dump on his dick then cut his dick off and make him eat the shit that came out of your ass then ram that shit covered cock down his throat then take that same shit and you can eat the shit that came out of your own ass
No idea I'm the same it hurts but I wanna!
So tight he can't even use a finger and no idea how to relax and practice!
Why does a butt plug help?
why do u want to try it? do u get plesure right there?
@peterrezeeek it does feel good and I wanna feel him there!
If you are relaxed, your anal sphincter will relax enough to that penetration is not painful. If you are nervous and clenched, your sphincter will not relax and it will be uncomfortable, so the key is to relax and engage in anal foreplay until you feel ready for penetration. It can be extremely enjoyable and orgasmic for the female, so try to drop the preconceptions and all the warnings others have given you.