Guys, How can I make my boyfriend want to fuck me?

[Anonymous]

I am usually the sex maniac in our relationship, I just can't get enough of my boyfriend. He's the only guy who has ever made me squirt, multiple times at that. I think I just feel this way because I've never been in a relationship where I'm sexually attracted to the person I'm dating, sadly. I just want him to want him to plow me and whisper dirty things in my ear, I want him to crave sex just as much as me. How can I make him desperate and want me bad? He is really into sex of course, but he's just an overall sweet guy who enjoys things beyond that when it comes to our time together. Usually I am good at teasing and whatnot, but I want to know what else I can do.

[caring__1]

Just like girls don't like guys to be totally self-focused, guys don't like girls who are like that, either. When we turn intimacy into a performance, it becomes a chore, and we're less likely to be interested in it. Learn to savor the connection rather than focus on extremes. Generally, when we seek quantity, there is something lacking in the quality. It might feel good for the moment, but the feeling doesn't linger. When you seek quantity, he'll assume he wasn't good enough the last time around.

[Asker]

I appreciate your opinion! While we do just have blatantly hot sex from time to time, however, most of the time it is very intimate and feels incredibly connecting, and we take our time. It's just from time to time, I want the hotter times to be initiated by him. I'm just feeling this way because I've started taking an antidepressant where a side effect is increased libido.

[caring__1]

There's not a problem with saying "It's that time of month again, and I have an itch that needs to be scratched." Just make sure you're playful about it and not adding pressure or obligation on him.

[scott04sa22]

give him some head?