How can I make the first move and have him wanting more in the bedroom?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months, we've done it all but i never make the first move- he always says how he would find it super hot if i made the first move to have sex.
Don't get me wrong we have good sex a lot but i want to surprise him and show him i can be confident and sexy in the bedroom...

I always get too nervous and leave it to him to initiate. I wouldn't even know how to do it in a sexy way or even know how to start it other than kissing him, what do i do after that LMAO?

I want him drooling and wanting more in the bedroom, what gets you guys feeling like that?
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  • Okay so hang on to your hat are you ready for this
    One day when you're in bed and you both have just your panties on he has his underwear on roll over and get on top of him sit on his cock and in slow motion start sliding forward and back I mean very very very slow motion reach down kiss him every once in awhile kiss his neck whisper in his ear I'm going to fuck you really really good unless you leaning forward you be sliding your clit on top of this cock all the way up and all the way back down but like I said you have to do it in slow slow motion.
    Run your nipple across his lips a couple times and then just stand up take off your panties reach down take off his underwear sit back down and do the same thing again in slow slow motion hopefully you're wet Enough by then to slip slide all the way up to the end of it all the way back down keep doing this in slow slow motion Breathe hard it is to his ear as you're kissing his neck keep pushing your hips down on top of him so that way your pussy will straddle each side of his cock do it can slow slow motion and you slide all the way forward and you're coming back on to it make it so it almost wants to hook up and go in but don't allow it to go in just keep seducing and teasing him if you do hook up on it just right go ahead and let him push just ahead of it and pull it back out and then go forward that you're going backwards that your pussy straddle his cock again if you do this for about 20 minutes I guarantee it he's going to fuck your brains out

    • Yes im ready lmaooo- sex isn't anything new to us it's just i always let him heat things up and make the moves etc! I've never made the move so i don't know how to as stupid as it sounds... We normally do this, have i been doing it all along and just not knowing?

    • Lol well the best part is than you want to explore it and do it for him i can tell you so many thing you can do that ste so hot that would rock his world

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  • Depending on how much of a shift you want I think this is where teenage me felt fluffy handcuffs a good accessory.

    He wants you. So you can be your awkward self. Just show you want him. Be vocal, physical. Being suggestive and hinting at things is quite easy. A little finger travelling along his body anywhere and little playful glance to his lower body? Think up a few crutches and fallbacks and then just go for it. Don't complicate things.

    • Thank you!! I definitely think little small steps like this is a good way to at least start :) Fluffy handcuffs sound a treat tbf...

    • It does give you all the agency. And as always when you change what people can do it changes the whole experience.

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  • Take your time.
    Start with an innocuous lotion massage.
    Advance into an erotic massage.
    Advance into fellatio.
    If he needs a push, add anal fingering to that. Those orgasms are magnificent.
    He will be begging for it next time.
    It doesn't always have to be intercourse. There are other moves and kinks you can try.

  • i guarentee you have not "done it all"

    • I can guarantee you have no idea what I have and haven't done...

    • assuming this within the context of sexual activities. have you done it on top of mount everest? on the great pyramids? in a clear glass elevator with a huge crowd around? in the car at a park, the mall, local eatery? and other such locations. technically i could ask for sone extremely outrageous places but am not besides one as a taste example. middle of the stage during a live performance at the grammys?

  • try making it harder for him to bang u so when he do.. he will do it more Passionate and hard.. while when u wanna get started then tease him to make him want u more and more

  • Just take it slow an tease then relax an make the move

  • Just think about what it would take to get your juices flowing. Then do the same to him.
    Granted a few of the parts are different. But they will respond pretty much the same way!
    Or wait until he is in the shower and step in with him. Tell him that you want to do something special and that you will help him get squeaky clean. Don’t forget to make sure that you use plenty of soap on certain spots.
    You could always blind fold him and let him wonder what you are going to do with him.
    If you know what edging is. Use that to get him to beg for release.
    Use your imagination!

  • do to it to him how he does it to you

    • smart, i like this

  • Wear lingerie tie him up tease him.

  • sexy lingerie and push him back on the bed till him this for you baby

  • Easy. While he's in the other room, run to the bedroom and strip down, get on bed in doggystyle position with your ass up facing the door and your head down, and then innocently call him into the room

  • I envy young couples like this

  • Tease him and make him earn it.

    • boy, i don't Even know how to tease LMAOOO...

    • Sure you do, just dress sexy and show some skin.