How can I openly talk about my kinks to my girlfriend, kinks she might not be into?

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Superb Opinion

  • Be careful with that man. Because here’s the issue, this can go one of two ways. 1- she could be into it and everything will be fine and you guys move on to experiencing them together which is the favorable outcome. Or 2- she could not be into it and feel as if she cannot satisfy you no more or be weirded out and it could cause huge issues or result in her breaking up with u due to insecurities. So tread carefully

Most Helpful Guy

  • As a couple the best thing to do is talk openly about sex. Not be embarrassed and be honest. For me this really works. Here’s my experience- a few years ago I told my girlfriend about my bdsm kink. She called me a freak and I realized she wasn’t the right girl for me…so I moved on, and my new girlfriend embraces it, and we have an adventurous kinky sex life because we are open with each other

Most Helpful Girls

  • You can broach the subject by asking her what her fantasies are. If they aren't anywhere near your own "kinks", then be careful.

    • She says she don't have any

    • I hate this when they say they don't have any

    • @Bolty44 We all do. They evolve over time.

  • Just tell her m, no big deal, maybe pick a time when you feel she is receptive or horny

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Probably depends on how out of the ordinary the kinks are?

  • Presuming your kinks are consensual and only involve fellow adult human beings? You don't want to be with someone that adamantly refuses to share your fantasies without a willingness to compromise.

    If they can't compromise in the bedroom they will not likely do so outside of the bedroom. But as one user said on here use the phrase "I would like to...*insert fantasy here*."

  • Start with the most ordinary. Have you ever... or how do you feel about...

  • Show her a video of what you like. If she freaks out. Then definitely do it !

  • Usually use "I would like" instead of "I want." Then it sounds like more of a mutual choice rather than pushing it on her.

  • If you KNOW she's not into them, then don't discuss.
    Doing so suggests you're going to go somewhere else to get it.

  • straight up, face to face

  • She’s your partner no? Be honest and open with her and trust her completely. If she doesn’t like it then that’s too bad but you gotta respect her opinion.

  • just tell her to punch you in the balls. she'll figure out that you like it when she sees you get hard. you're welcome

    • Dumb guy

    • oh sorry. did i spoil your "surprise" for later when you try to get all the girls to message you in private so you can reveal the truth? 🤡

    • Lol you really are dumb, I guess you outed yourself by saying what you do on here, I was genuinely looking for advice unlike you. Childish troll

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