How can I persuade my husband to have anal sex with me?

[Anonymous]

I'm currently 32 weeks pregnant, and for some reason I have an intense craving for anal sex. In the past I was against it, and my husband has never asked this of me. I've asked him for it and he says he thinks its gross/dirty. He said he has tried it before when he was younger and that it "wasn't his cup of tea." If he tried it before with someone else, why won't he be willing to please me in this way? Pregnancy can do some strange things to you, but this is what I want. How can I convince him to do this for me?

[broadsword]

Why not get your self a butt plug and have it in during normal sex. Then your both happy :) it might excite him enough into replacing it for himself. I would recommend a vibrating one so he can feel it too:)

[Asker]

I asked him this, as he is aganist having toys in the bedroom. He said he didn't want me getting any. I think he worries I will use them when I am alone.

[broadsword]

A butt plug isn't for use in your Pussy he shouldn't feel intimated by one. I think you need to have a sit down and long chat. Tell him you want him and love him but you really want to try new things with him. Communication is the key here. Treasure him it's fine but you want to try new things with him. Feel free to message me if you would like to discuss this further :)

[Anonymous]

It's just not something he enjoys, you can't really make him do it, although if he asks for blowjobs, ever, you have an excellent argument to convince him to perform oral on you.

[Asker]

My husband and I give each other oral sex almost everytime we are intimate as foreplay. And I often offer to give him oral if I'm not up for intercourse (my drive was really low I'm my 2nd trimester) as giving him oral is something I enjoy.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I had misread you question as oral not anal. Ask him to do it for you, not for his pleasure, but tell ask him to do it just to please you, as a gift (of sorts). also make sure you clean that area appropriately (look up how online)

[slackercruster]

Dream girl, have him finger you butt and you vibrate or have him use a dildo on your butthole... if he won't cooperate otherwise.

[kheserthorpe]

the universe hates us all, doesn't it.

[CuriousEddie]

I agree that you should get a toy -- and it is weird (and wrongly controlling) that he doesn't want you to. He doesn't want you to masturbate?

[Asker]

No, he wants me to wait for him. I think he feels/worries I would choose to please myself and turn him away because I would already be satisfied.

[CuriousEddie]

That might apply to guys a little more then women, since we need more recharge time. But I still think that's controlling -- there's no reason you can't pleasure yourself when you wish, and deal with it separately if he thinks it is negatively impacting your sex life. (there is also the chance it might improve it) I wouldn't ask about the toy. I'd get yourself s butt plug and next time you have sex show him, and say you understand he doesn't want to do that with you, so you bought yourself a toy so you can see how it feels. Period.

[realdudeprince]

Oh thats good thing
Fr thing seduced ur husband
Wear sexy dress and massage him and his cock and then ask him fr anal
At tht point of time he can't control himself and will do as ur wish ;)

[Anonymous]

It's interesting that you crave anal while pregnant. My wife did as well, with both of her pregnancies. I was more than happy to oblige. I'm sorry your husband isn't.

I don't understand the aversion some men have to pleasing a woman anally. I don't know what to tell you except that I hope he comes around and stops being a selfish prick.

[Anonymous]

Get him to put a condom on if he finds it disgusting that might lessen how disgusting it is to him. Just explain how much you want to at least try it with him. Or you could blind fold him...