How can I prepare for sex first time?

I’m a virgin still 22 and might see boyfriend this Sunday at motel. We both still live parents so that’s y we need have sex at motel. Will it hurt? I never understood how a penis fits inside a small vagina deep in and out? Like I don’t get how penis can thrust so deep down there? I don’t see huge hole. Me and boyfriend have dry humped before and madeout and bj and hand and fingering but real sex seems intense. To thrust so hard into you or doggie or move my butt so fast in cowgirl up and down on him. I have birth control
Shot and we use condom is that good enough to not be pregnant?
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  • I have had sex with several virgins. Here is what you need to know.

    1. It will hurt. How bad? No way to find out until you try. It may feel like a paper cut or hurt like hell so bad he cannot even get inside of you.
    2. USE LUBRICATION. This will help enormously.
    3. Relax your muscles and keep your legs wide open. Your instinct when it starts to hurt is to tighten your muscles and clam up. That is exactly the wrong thing to do. That only makes it worse.

    I have also found that condoms make it a lot more painful. Since you are on BC, don't use one unless you think he might have an STD.

    There are two ways to penetrate first, and I couldn't say whether one is better than the other. One is to ease in a bit at a time. The other is to thrust in all at once (with lube). In either case, once he is all the way inside, have him just stop and hold it there. Wait until the pain subsides before anything else.

  • You wanna make him take his time with foreplay. If he does it right, his penis will just slide in fine and it'll be fine. Maybe a bit of discomfort at first, but usually that turns into pleasure soon enough.

    Some tips:
    Up and down movements won't be as pleasurable to you and will make him cum way faster than he probably has to. With cowgirl, grinding back and forth will probably feel better for you and he'll probably last longer. When he's in control, you gotta stay relaxed, let him go in. If you can lay in a position where you can see him go in, it might help as well.

    Birth control and condoms are fine, the condom need to break AND your birth control needs to fail AND you need to be fertile that day for you to even have a chance of becoming pregnant, so I would worry about it.

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  • Contraception sorted, desire and excitement sorted, location sorted. Now you just need to go there, relax, go through everything as before, make sure that you are very aroused and ready for him. Then just have him rub his penis there so it is nice and lubricated, then make sure he just gently enters a little. Stop and enjoy that feeling, relax, then move gently again, out a little, in a little. Enjoy!

  • Sex for a girl can hurt my advice is plenty of foreplay and kissing don't rush take your time when he first enters you you may feel a little stretching but just know this is normal

    • But how can a penis fit so deep In small vagina?

    • If it can fit a baby it can fit a penis our vaginas can stretch to accommodate this

    • I don’t want be pregnant tho

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  • Take his time with fore play and relax! that way it won’t hurt

  • You'll be fine, and use as much protection as you can

    • So birth control shot and condoms are enough to not be pregnant?

    • Yes I think you'll be safe with that amount of protection, so don't stress

  • Shave your pussy and learn how to suck dick.

  • Yep that should be fine for birth control. Try to take it easy and don't rush it. It's your first time and you don't want to hurt yourself.

  • Get some lube and use condoms.

  • Is he also virgin?

  • Have him take it nice and slow dont rush the moment it's your first time make it special. Enjoy yourself kiss him make sure he plays with your clit. Once you both cum it will be amazing. Yes it will hurt but you will also feel pleasure as long as he is being gentle with you

  • U shudnt prepare. Let it flow naturally.

  • I think you should take my sex Ed course at my place this weekend... special sale price for virgins don't wait long parents get home early Sunday...

  • I bet he had to hit on you first

  • How did it go?

  • Practice makes perfect. Lol.

    • Any advice?

    • Pm me