Girls, How can I prepare my wife for anal sex?

I want her to enjoy anal sex and not to hurt her. What you advice me to do? How can i prepare her for it?
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  • Wine. Lots of wine.
    Arousal is key, it needs to be very high.
    Lubricant. There's no such thing as too much.
    Stretching with fingers prior.
    First start in a fetal spooning position and have her drop her butt towards the bottom of the bed. This naturally makes you more open and so reduces the pain when you are getting use to the feeling. After she is comfortable you can try other positions.
    Go slow.
    Listen.
    Trust is also important but given she is your wife I'm going to assume there's a lot of trust there already.
    They make numbing lubricants but a lot of people agree that they aren't a good idea because pain is telling you something is wrong and if you can't feel the pain then you risk injuring yourself a lot more.
    It takes a lot of getting use to but is quite enjoyable.

    • Thanks a lot. How often i should do in first times?

  • this is what you do. have normal sex for awhile. then finger her ass. make sure you use A LOT of lube. then use your thumb in her ass. then get in doggy position and use lube on your dick and then her ass. then you slowly very slowly nudge the head of your cock in her ass. then once you get in the head, let her be the one to rock back and forth to get the whole thing in her ass little by little.

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  • First ask her if she wants it lol

    • yes she wants but afraid of pain

    • Start by getting a silicon based lube, I find that's the most slippery, doesn't dry out at all and doesn't get tacky. Make her cum once or a few times before you start anything to relax her and turn her on. Put this all over her asscrack, (too much is never enough) and your finger and gently finger her with one finger at first. then move to two. Try and get the lube inside her. When she says she's ready get lube all over your dick, DRENCH IT. Then go slowly Don't go all the way in, go just an inch or two and then slowly thrust that length until she's comfortable with it. Then try and get more in there. Thrust slowly unless she tells you otherwise, anal is meant to be slow (at least at first) While you're doing this you can finger her (not with the finger that was in her ass!!) Anal in missionary may be easier and let's it be more intimate.

    • Thanks a lot. How often i should do in first times?

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  • Lots of foreplay, maybe a great massage to relax her. Lots and lots of lube. And then more. And go REALLY slowly.

  • Use lube and turn her on

  • First, ask if she's even into having anal sex and if she is willing to try it, buy some good lube!

    • she wants but she is afraid of pain

    • Then definitely do some research on some lube specialized for anal sex and get a few different kinds and try them out. Just have a night of experimenting which will work out well for her body. But I recommend first that you apply a small application to her stomach first to see if she has an allergic reaction. No need to have a rash in "that area"...

    • thanks a lot. should i use fingers or butt plugs first?

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  • Introduce her first to a good lawyer
    Buy her a whip/crop to use on you if it hurts a little bit
    Get her drunk, lube her up, bend her over the bathroom sink

  • Slowly get her use to assplay fingers during oral rim jobs it will take her body a bit to get use to it but if she use to she won't tense up with causes most of the pain. Anal ease and a bottle of sangria and patience.

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