How can I “release” without scaring my boyfriend?

[prettysureitsher]

my boyfriend and i have planned to have sex tonight which i’m super excited for since it’s been more than a week since the last time. but i’m also ovulating right now meaning my sex drive is SUPER high and i have a feeling that because of my hormones and feelings for him, i’m going to be way too aggressive and “primal”. this is very different for me because i’m usually super submissive and let him lead during sex.

we’ve sent some dirty texts today but i haven’t gone in depth about how i’m feeling as i don’t want to scare him or make him nervous. should i let him know beforehand? what are some ways i can release all this tension inside without scaring him or being too overbearing.

[MrOracle]

in my opinion, the worst thing you can do is hold back. Sex is all about letting go and being yourself and allowing yourself to be pleasured. If you think you need to warn him, then do so, but definitely don't hold back so you don't have to have a discussion - that's just bad in every possible way.

[Godsvengeance]

You should never hold back during sex. Sex should mostly be about the woman getting as much enjoyment as humanly possible and you holding back is the exact opposite of that. You should be open and free and if it scares him then now you know and maybe he's not the one for you. If he cares about pleasuring you at all he will sense you are holding back and it will upset him and if he doesn't care about your pleasure then just tell him to masturbate and you should find a man who does care

[NamerOfStars]

It's not a bad idea to warn him, but you probably needn't go into too much detail. Unless he's a very controlling personality, or reacts badly to unexpected changes, something as simple as "I'd like to try something new tonight" should get the message across. If he asks "What?", then explain, either with words or by shoving your tongue down his throat.

[spartan55]

Good lord, don't worry, he'll be fine.

[summiter]

Hopefully you are on birth control or use condoms. Just jump his bones he will love it. Do you usually go for round 2 or 3 with him? If not try it!!!

[prettysureitsher]

yeah we usually do that

[summiter]

Way to go. Have some great orgasms!!! Screw him till he can't walk. He will love it and it sure is more fun thank jerking off which all young guys do often (but most will never admit it!)

[TheBootyChest]

I think you are right that you should tell him beforehand.

But a usual rule for me who have a high sex drive right before a date is to masturbate just before the date.

[slatyb]

Don't worry about it. He'll love it. I hope you are on BC.

[bean2k21]

eat a bunch of Indian food and take a really steam shit
then bow down in front of him with your ass in his face
and tell him you need a Spicy Marvin

[FilmGuy93]

Why do you have hold anything back? You want to get fucked, just let yourself have fun with it

[prettysureitsher]

i don’t want to scare him or do anything against his consent

[FilmGuy93]

You won't. Just show some enthusiasm and enjoy yourself. Maybe tell him that you're really horny before getting started, but don't overthink this stuff.

[Kyle-Jackson78]

just go wild, guy are turned on by it,

[Massageman]

As you run your hand through his hair, and down his shoulder- as you pirouette around his body- just quietly mention that you really REALLY missed him today as you take off his pants!

[AndrésC64]

Why hold back? He might actually love it. I think everybody enjoys sex more when their partner is enjoying it.