How can I spice things up?

I want more in my sex life but I'm not sure what any ideas? Also what kinda thing can I surprise my partner with Like for example lingere.
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  • Get some toys from a sex shop, try role playing, sex games, or watching porn for inspiration. Think about having sex in different locations such as in the shower, kitchen, outdoors, watching TV, in a vehicle, etc. Try tying him up and having your way with him and vice versa. If you have a bush, shave it or trim it. If you usually have intercourse, try a titty fuck, or giving him a hand job or blowjob. Swallow his cum if you don't usually provided you're both okay with it. Challenge him to eat you to orgasm. Try some flavored products like "Pussy Licker" or some whipped cream around your vagina or on his dick. Hold your pussy open for him so he has good access to your clit with his tongue. Try a different position besides you on your back such as a downward dog, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, or sitting on his face. If you usually have sex in the dark, try with the lights on. Play a game like cards where the loser has to do whatever the winner wants sexually.

Most Helpful Guy

  • This is an area where I have a lot of followers, >20K. What kinds of things have you tried?

Most Helpful Girl

  • Be spontaneous, dare in public but be discreet, tease him, surprise him, be sassy and shameless.

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  • shouldn't be having sex at your age, in my opinion

    but, if you aren't going to listen to me..

    the best way to spice it up, is to just do it, unplanned. planned sex, becomes boring.

    just start kissing him, or something, see how he reacts.

    • You believe that people shouldn't have sex at the age of legal adulthood?

    • she's 18 yes but i just think it's still too young. as long as she's being safe, that's all i care about

    • Interesting. May I ask why you believe that to be too young?

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  • My favorite:
    Have him lay on his back with his erecting on his stomach.
    Straddle him back by his balls. Spread your labia either side of his shaft.
    Slide up to the head, back to the balls, Repeat!
    Lean forward so your clit will rub his shaft, let him play with your nipples.
    You will have an orgasm and what you do after that is your business.
    By the way, I call this Riding the Pony