How can I stop my boyfriend from asking to go bare and cum inside me?

I am not ready for that yet but he keeps wanting it and I don't want to lose him over this.
How can I stop my boyfriend from asking to go bare and cum inside me?
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  • If you're worried about a pregnancy then go for birth control if it's an STD you're worried about then you still need the condom

    And if for whatever reason you're just not wanting it raw because that's just your personal preference then just tell him that and if he continues to tell him you really don't want that

    • I am on birth control I am just still nervous about getting pregnant

    • Then let him know

    • And maybe do further research so that way you can get comfortable with your choices before you do such a thing

Most Helpful Guy

  • If he won’t respect this decision of yours and threatens you when he doesn’t get what he wants, you giving in will teach him that he can bull his way through any objections you have to anything. It’s ultimately your body not his.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Tell him you don’t want to do it as you’re not comfortable about it and talk about why you’re not comfortable with it - if he respects that he’s a keeper but if he keeps pushing - it tells you that he actually doesn’t care how you’re feeling as long as he gets what he wants so let him go

  • If you're not comfortable with it and he still presses the issue, then he sounds like an asshat, and you don't want that in your life.

    Find someone who respects your boundaries.

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  • Tell him to give you a $30,000 deposit in case you get pregnant to cover your costs, and then he can. I'm pretty sure he will stop asking.

  • Just tell him. If he leaves you because of this, then he’s no good man for you to stay with. A good man knows how to understand his girlfriend and care about her.

  • Talk about babies, and make sure it's uncomfortable

  • So basically, you're in a relationship with a guy who doesn't respect you and you're scared to lose him... lol let him back to the streets

  • Just go for it. The feeling is incredible

  • By asking him to marry, first.

  • Say are you sure your want to pay for the next 18 to 21 year for a child. Bare + cum = life payments

  • If you don't want too and he keeps pressuring you... get a new boyfriend. Some guys are just jerks

  • Set your limits! Do not let him pressure you into something that you said that you aren’t ready for. If he isn’t mature enough to respect that, then maybe he isn’t mature enough to date.

  • Cut him off completely.

  • if you “lose him” then you were nothing more than a pussy he wants to nut inside.

  • Get on birth control and then he can.

    • I am that is why he keeps asking. He says he wants bare so it feels lots better.

    • Ok. Let him do it then

    • I am still nervous about it so that's why I asked

  • Tell him to fuck off.

  • can you get the birth control pill? it takes about three to four week to start working

  • tell him you can't stand the thought of not swallowing his cum and want every drop in your tummy. He'll forget all about cumming inside

  • no condom no sex...

  • 1) brith control for fcks sake. My wife used to double up on the pill and VCF spermicide.
    2) you should be in complete control over how it goes in your body.

    • I am on birth control

    • Well good! So it’s not pregnancy then?

  • I expected my girlfriends to let me go raw and bust inside. They agreed except for my first girlfriend but we were young.

  • you can't
    he will always way bare sex

    scare him with a baby

    • Smart, she can scare without lying. Just tell the bastard she's late on her period. Wait a minute? Why should she be with a bastard? Obviously this relationship will fail before marriage, if it gets to marriage it's because he knocked her up. Then after a scant year or three they are divorced any how.

  • No, if he leaves you over this, then you lost nothing because he wasn't the one.

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