How Can I stop This Gay Guy from fingering me in front People?

Hi, I am 17 years old boy, My father left my mom when i was 7-8 years old, since my mom has been living in my uncle's home, there is a man who is uncle's friend and he is a quack (unskilled doctor), So when i was 11-12 years old and if i ever fell sick, My mom used to take me to his clinic for medicine, he sometimes used to give me injections on my butt, and he would spank on my butts for fun, since i was just 12-13 years so it was a OK thing that time !

But later, he started fingering in my butt hole, he used to give me chocolate to entice me, but Now i am 17 years old but he still comes to my uncle's home and do this to me, he hugs me tightly and pull down my pants and underwear and he keeps me hugged with his one hand and with other hand he starts fingering in my butt hole, he don't let me run away and if i resist too much then he shove two finger's in my butt and he stretches my butt hole apart, it cause me Extreme pain and i stop resisting and surrender to him immediately.

I feel very embarrassed specially when he do this to me in front mom or aunt, and no one dare to stops him as he is uncle's rich friend, what do i do to get rid of him? At least, he shall not finger me in front people but he don't care !
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Can getting fingered quite often cause some serious issue in my butthole? he usually shove two fingers but he finger me very hard, I feels burning sensation and Pain there.
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  • Tell the people who have seen it how you feel. If they refuse to help you take action make sure it's known once you get higher authorities help, you'll see their goofy ass in court. Otherwise, the next time he does it around people scream the absolute loudest you can. Cause a scene- something like that can't be ignored. If that doesn't work buy pepper spray, or a taser. Use it. You can also knee him right in his dick with all your might. I hope one of these work babe, goodluck 🧡

    • thanks for your opinion, I will try to do something but I don't have much hope with other people, I already told sometimes he even finger me in front other people, he has fingered me in front my mom and aunt too, but they didn't help me, I asked to my mom to talk to him and make him stop because I don't like it and it cause me so much pain in my butt, my mom said that he would talk to him but still she didn't and everything is still going like before !

    • I also tried to wear tight jeans and multiple underwear but it didn't help, he is quite stronger than to me and he forcefully pulled them off.

Most Helpful Girl

  • When he does this especially in front of people I would totally yell freak out be like "Now you got shit on your fingers you nasty pedophilic fuck!!" Just crazy shit.. scream at him curse him and cause the biggest seen just to embarrass him for doing it. Whether people believe he did it or not I bet he won't want to feel the embarrassment again. When I was in he high when my gfs and I would walk to school in the morning there was a guy that would stand in his 2end story window and play with himself knowing we could see him. For like 2 weeks.. We told A guy friend of ours about it and the next day he walked with us and when the dude got in the window our friend started yelling in the street at him and was raising hell and the dude never did it to us again. With or without our other friends with us.
    If that don't work knee him in the nuts really f-ing hard every time!!!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Kick him in the nuts as hard as you can and break his fingers, then call the police.

    This is typeical homosexual pedophile behavior. this guy probably does this to all young boys and your family is at fault too. Your family is useless.

    Move out of this house as soon as you turn 18 too and get as far away form him and your family as possible.

    • My family is useless and don't help me, when he fingers infront my family, I feels much ashamed and embarrassed but I can't do anything.

  • do u not have any muscle power at 17. if not maybe you can poop on him and then you grab your pee and smear it all over his face and mouth. then find anything sharp nearby. if u can just break some glass and grab shard and punch the side of him with it

    • I am quite skinny boy So he overpower me easily and don't let me run away and I already told you if I try to resist too much then he spreads my butt hole to cause me pain.

    • then fighting spirit. power of your fist comes from mental energy. swing from hips. power punch

    • I am trying to fight back but he is too powerful to me, So I want My Mom or Aunt to help me, they shall talk to him and make him stop.

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  • You report it to the police. Try to get evidence if you can.

    Also are you actually gay yourself or this gay man is just forcing himself on you and you’re straight?

  • Report him. Call the police. If you know he is coming over, try to put your phone somewhere hidden and record it so you have evidence. You’ll need something to prove it so they can take action

    • Recording is not very easy because he comes suddenly and without giving me any chance he starts fingering me.

    • May I message you?

    • yup you can

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  • To to a doctor tell them what the guy has done they will examine you correctly and if there is evidence (stretching or tearing) they will contact the police department and the guy will be arrested for sexual assault and taking liberties with a minor and your parents and aunt (whoever was present while he didn't hear things and didn't stop him) will most likely be arrested as accessories (unless they say they are willing to testify against the guy) in a crime. You will probably be either sent to live with other relatives or out into a group home. Bright sides are he won't be touching you again and you can try to use him for damages (maybe end up rich yourself)

  • WTF I can't believe I just read what you described. Your own family does nothing to stop it? HOW? He's a fucking PEDOPHILE! You heard it. He's been molesting you and possibly other kids too since you was 12 years old. You need to go to the police immediately. He's a fkcing rapist pedophile this needs to stop immediately. I'm so disappointed that your family doesn't do absolutely anything to stop it I would've have kicked him and report him to the police without even blinking. This isn't right.

  • This literally the funniest shit i ever read in a long time

    I hope I'm not a bad person for that

    How Can I stop This Gay Guy from fingering me in front People?
    • Fuck you and everybody who took this shit seriously

  • 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭 wow some things u just keep to yourself your being raped by a gay guy 😭😭😭😭😂

    • I am not being raped he just finger me.

    • That doesn’t make it any better makes worse how your just sitting there and taking dat shit

    • I am trying to get rid of him but he is quite stronger than to me, he even say that he would butt fuck me once I turned 18 years old.

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  • Cops... and them exactly what you wrote. There is a time limit... be strong, for yourself.

  • honestly, i'd straight up sue that guy, get him arrested for being the sex offender that he is.

  • Okay and you can't get away from him? I feel like you don't really want him to stop

    • I want to sop him but he is too strong to me, So I feels helpless in front him, Sometimes he shove 3 fingers in my butthole and I feel horrible pain.

  • Tell your mum to have a word with him. If she does nothing tell this guy you have had enough of this treatment and you want it to stop. Tell him if it doesn’t you’ll go to where he works and tell everyone what he does to you. If that doesn’t work go to the police.

    • I have already asked my mom to talk to him but mom still not have talked to him, I told mom that I don't like it and it also hurt me a lot... I don't know what else I can tell her, She herself seen him fingering me but mom never took it that much seriously !

    • The next time he tries to do it to you just refuse and walk away.

    • If I try to refuse or resist then he becomes aggressive, he grabs my balls from my behind and then he fingers me badly and don't let me run away.

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  • Steps to proceed
    1. talk to mom or dad about this, no help from them proceed to the next step
    2. involve the police, no help from them proceed to the next step
    3. (my fav)
    - build up muscle / train yourself in gym
    - fight him at all cost, tools come in handy (knifes)
    I had similar encounter just not so intimate contact.

  • Tell any and everyone you know dude. This is not okay, you'te being sexually harrased. Tell you mom, aunt, the police. Literally any adult who can help you.

    • I am trying to get help but still situation is same like before, he has fingered me in front my mom and aunt so they already know, I asked mom to talk to him and stop him, my mom said she would talk to him but still she didn't help me.

    • They are proably too scared to help i guess, the only thing i can think of is to go to the police yourself and report it. Or even record him doing it to you and show it to them. Take action, don't let him continue to torment you

    • I don't know what is the issue with them, I can't expect much help from my Aunt because he helps my uncle with money so Aunt would not help me but at least my mom shall intervene and help me, he fingers me very aggressively and I feel lots of pain there, if no one stopped him then he might try to butt fuck me with his dick too ! So I am worried about this, I would try to record it but its very difficult.

  • Call the cops, and get a restraining order put on this man. That is not appropriate.

  • Kick him in the balls.

  • Start working and move out.

  • I would have made in Italy called the police and then he'll be arrested for sexual assault of a minor then then he would be a sex offender and he would lose his license

  • That's sexual harassment and he should be reported to authorities

  • punch him and tell him you are not gay

    • I have already told him that I am not Gay like him but he don't listen me, if I try to run away then from my behind he grabs my balls and finger me badly.

  • thats wrong, tell the police

  • Kick His Balls

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