How can I stop waiting for my ex-bf to text me?

[Anonymous]

Its been 3 days since we broke up after we’ve been together for 4 yrs😔 and it was my fault because i lied about something so big he basically told me he forgives me and we can be “friends” but then this is how it went. The first day he called me and he was CRYING and he told me we can be from then he said well maybe we can’t since we’ll catch emotions again and he asked me to send a pic of my breasts because he still likes me and since i love him i did it right away then he told me we need space so he left me and i waited for him to text me all day i then sent him an apology😔 and i was emotional I've been hysterically crying and then he told me its ok we just need some distance then on the second day i decided i won't text him but i WAIT all day for a text i check my phone every minute the first thing i do when i wakeup is look at the notifications to see if he texted and sure enough he texted me again on the second day and then again on the third day (today) and he asked me for a pic of my breasts AGAIN and he said i just wanna see them for the last time and ill never ask u for nudes again he also sent me a dick pic and he asked me to screenshot it and then asked me if we can be friends with benefits 😔and that absolutely broke my heart he even sexualized me and all black girls by telling me i would totally love to sleep with you i have a black girl fetish but I wouldn’t marry you because “i deserve better” 😔😔 it really made me sad and broken and then he proceeded to ignore me and then he randomly sent me a hamburger snap and said he is craving burgers and he is currently peacefully sleeping while I can’t sleep all night thinking about him and waiting for a text when he is such a douche😭😔🚶‍♀️

[MikeTheBartender]

Exes are exes for a reason. Never go through the trash once it has been dragged to the curb. Its dirty, your neighbors see you doing it, and what you are searching for is never as valuable as you once thought it was.

Focus on yourself, hit the gym hard and get a banging revenge body, go on a cool trip, learn an instrument or a new skill. Leave the past behind.

[Kaneki05]

Sounds like he got simple payback for whatever you lied about. Just gotta move on find someones else and next time don't lie.

[Asker]

I made a mistake and i deeply regret it and i apologized there is no need for him to act like such an asshole especially after saying he forgives me I understand being angry but this is way too extreme.

[Kaneki05]

That's kinda how it works with a lot people. We become assholes to people who hurt us. Especially if it's someone you love. More you love more hard the hate can kick in if something goes wrong. And eventually he won't contact you no more. Because a bond can be broken. And once if it is it's hard to get it back and well if the other person ain't even trying because he is scared you will lie again or whatever else. Some people may forgive but it don't mean they ignore there sense to protect themselves.

[Anonymous]

Well he isn’t fully to blame for his behaviour I mean you allowed it to happen the very moment you sent those pictures to him and when you kept responding to his text

[Asker]

I responded because he was crying and that was my fault so i wanted to make him feel better because i felt so guilty and the pics thing was me being weak because i still love him so much😔that is on me for SURE

[chriscdi]

this happened to me, over time you'll give up waiting for a message when they stop responding, all the hope leaves trust me 😂

[Asker]

I can’t wait😔i’m so bothered I can’t even sleep or eat

[chriscdi]

yep it will be like that for like a week but you'll get better trust me, he wasn't all that, im sure you'll find better

[Asker]

Thank you for your kindness 😔

[chriscdi]

anytime missy 💯🙏🏽