Well how rough? Like a spank or a face slap? Cause I'd be scared also of hurting her or being to rough.
I suggest writing a dirty short story or whisper what you want in his ear. Maybe make him go to far and show you how strong you are.
Have him spank you and then say harder and keep getting happier about it.
My married friends had that where she wanted a good spanking and kept wanting more so he let her really have it. So hard for two days she did not want to sit and had a bruise like a five star. Honestly she liked that he did it to please her and is proud of that story. Though she did not like it then she love that moment now as a story. Since then they found thier rythem.
It's all about communication maybe take charge be dominant and take what you want. Ordering him to slap you. He might get that you really enjoy it then.
Make him slowly hate you. Then on the bed, beg him not to hurt you. His anger will do the job. Unless the guy is too good.
Tried it a month ago, didn’t work 😂
What about taking control of everything? This one is hard though
Tell him you two are hitting on all cylinders that you think you’re ready to take it up a notch and you’ve always wanted to be a bit rougher. Be patient as he may not want to move so fast so soon though
I tried that, didn’t go as planned 😂
Well he’s not comfortable yet be patient
The thing that he didn’t say no, he said sure but the when things started to go down. He was like”no this is going to hurt you we should stop”
Just moan "mmm... harder... Harder..." it's that simple 😂
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Make it a turn on sentence
Establish a safe word. Sit down and let him inflict pain on you so he can gage your tolerance. Also, find out if he has trauma towards this or a phobia
Start with a light spanking maby
If you want rough, try being rough. Tell him not to be such a pussy. If you're worried about hurting his feelings, chances are you don't want it as rough as you think.
I think you need to set up a safe word so he knows for sure when you want him to stop instead of keep going to please you. This might give him the confidence that he's not hurting you.
Just communicate more, tell him you want him to be rougher
The thing that he didn’t say no, he said sure but the when things started to go down. He was like”no this is going to hurt you we should stop” < i copied it cuz I’m too lazy to write it again 😅😅😅
I guess tell him it'll hurt in a good way, say you like a little pain with your pleasure
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