Related to the groping question, I want to find a way to make sure whether he groped me accidentally or intentionally.
Is there any way, move or a game I can try with him to confirm if he touched me between my thigh by mistake?
I don't judge or assume quickly until I make sure about it especially he's a very good friend.
If think there is a move or game to trick any guy to do or say anything then your head is the wrong place. When you resort to tricks like this, then guys will try to guess what it is you want to hear and say whatever it is they think you want to hear.
Best thing you can do is say to him is this;
"Look I am not mad or anger, but I really just want to know did you really do that by accident or purpose?"
If you value, the friendship then you will accept whatever answer he gives as the truth.
If he says yes, I did it on purpose then you have to tell him straight out. I appreciate you being honest but know that is not okay and I do not ever want to be touch like that again. Unless you have interested him, and you really did not mind it... then tell him that you are not anger but you would have preferred him just being honest about it and to assuming that was the right thing to do.
If says no it was a complete accident.
Then say okay I will turst you, but just make sure it never happens again.
And if you want it to happen again, Just say... look I just want you to be honest with me, because this should not be an accidental thing, if you want to happen again. But it's acceptable to just happen again without some type of conversation taking place.
I guess I cannot really give you a good answer, without knowing how you truly feel about it.
That's a solid answer and I love it !! This is by far the best answer and I will keep it in mind, thank you so much !
Yeah, a few typos in that post... but I think you got what I meant. Bottom line if want it to happen again, or you don't... It's not acceptable for him to just make that move... if was accident or not, trust your gut. If it was or was not an accident, regardless of how you feel about it... it should not just ever "accidently" happen again unless he wants to have an honest conversation about the nature of your relationship.
It's difficult to touch between the thighs accidentally. There's a good chance it was intentional. Have you tried outright asking him?
Ya he said he didn't mean to
I'm not sure how you could actually test him other than putting yourself in a situation where he could "accidentally" touch you again and see if he does. If you want to keep the friendship and would prefer not to know then it's probably a better idea not to test him. I don't know the full situation, obviously, but there's a good chance you'll be disappointed by him if you manage to test him. It's perfectly possible to maintain just a friendship between a girl and a guy, but if he's groping you, he probably is hoping for more.
That's the whole point. Testing him to see if he does it again then I make my own decision. I want to know a situation where I can test if he could accidentally touch me and if he does it then I know it's on purpose. Any ideas?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Ok so your last question you just talked about him kind of groping you I took that as he slid by you or something but now that you say it like this I changed my first answer and I'll put it on here that's not an accident. So you have to think about what you guys are doing at the moment and why would his hand be down by the area...
And the next thing is no there's no test you can do and even if there was you wouldn't want to do it because what you're doing is you're inviting him to do it again
Or you might do something and he might take it the wrong way so you either confront him on it or you leave it alone it depends on you you're the only one that can make that choice
I've thought about it and I'm not sure if it's by mistake or on purpose. It's better not to judge and reach conclusion quickly, that's why I have to make sure about it. It's complicated and I can't write the full situation there. The test will determine his intentions at that time and will make it clear to me whether he did it on purpose or not , I want to do a test and once I find a suitable answer then I will try it but so far no one said any suggestion. I already told him about it and he said he didn't mean it, a confirmation is the best choice to understand everything.
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There is no such thing as "accidentally", therefore it was deliberately groping... Simples!
I didn't write the situation so no one can judge without knowing it, hence why I I wanted to conform by myself.
Was it a full hand thing? Was it when walking or something cause reaching out is intentional
No , it's a complicated situation.
I don't doubt that
But yeah it was a full hand thing if that helps, I said no to the 2nd part.
You could try to recreate a similar situation and see if he gropes you again.
Exaxt same? I think it can be a good idea
If you think you could make it exact same, it's probably a good way to test him.
Maybe I'm not sure
I doubt it was an accident.
If you want him just say I liked when you touched me there and if you don't there's no need to test him or find out.
I'm not interested into such things. I only care about the friendship
Then it doesn't really matter, just ignore it.
With guys there is no accident touching like in anime he groped 6ou and is dreaming about what he felt!
Just how guys are!
Don't lump us all in the same boat. I've accidently brushed the back of my hand against a fellow co-workers butt. I was just lifting my arm to put item on desk. She bent over same time my hand was going up. I told her excuse me, im sorry didn't mean to do that. She said it was fine she knew. Nothing became of it and moved on.
@Mansearching That is an accident between her thighs is not! It was not a bit touch! Mr rude
That's false. Getting brushed up by accident is very common. It's really sad you think all men grope women without accident.
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