Pick up more of the work around the house is always a good starter.
Take care of the kids more.
But, horny starts in the mind. Start leaving her love notes. Put a note on the bathroom mirror. One on the creamer she uses in her coffee. On the steering wheel of her car. Don't make all of them sexual. Like, if the kids have lunch boxes, put a note in there that says "best damn mom in the world" so that when she opens it bleary eyed in the morning to pack the kids lunch she sees it. In other words, appreciate her in word and in deed and make sure that whatever you do to help actually buys her time.
But... make some of your notes sexual but not creepy or graphic. put one in her panty drawer that says "you look great in these... but I like removing them". If she's washing dishes make a whispered comment about being wet. Or make virtual love to her with your eyes across the dinner table. Brush her arm as you pass her in the house. Build the sexual tension all day. As part of that, think about texting her. You can keep it relatively clean ("can't wait to be inside you") or send her the eggplant emoji -- or be graphically sexual.
Then, when you're with her make it all about her. Massage. Touch. Caress. Give her several orgasms before you start anything with or for you or penetrative sex. Make the sex memorable from the perspective that she's so turned on and so satisfied and so fulfilled that she can't help but think about it the next and that builds anticipation.
NOW THIS is what I'm talking about. Great ideas! I like it
I wrote a little but simple note and left it right inside her wallet. She said that was super adorable and that I'm cute! It's a start!
Nicely done! Great work!
Make sure you do your share of the household chores and taking care of the kids. It’s important that she gets enough sleep, rest and alone time. Take care of yourself and try to look good for her. Also make sure she feels desired, wanted, hot and sexy. After having kids with all the changed to the body often you just don’t feel hot anymore often even ashamed and insecure about the stretch marks, lose skin, extra baby weight, pp belly, the skin and hair can change for the worse after having had kids (for example getting more wrinkles), saggy boobs, worry about what the vagina feels and looks like and so on and on. Make sure you give her attention, compliments and affection every day without any sort of expectation of sex. Random kisses, sneaking up hugging her from behind, noticing little details like new hairstyle/nails/she did the bed or whatever it may be. During sex focus a lot of foreplay and her pleasure so that she knows when you guys have sex it’s actually good and worth it for her also and not just something she feels obliged to do for your sake to fullfill your needs or like when you cum its gonna be over and you just roll over and fall asleep. Other than this there’s not really much you can do unless she has some specific needs/desired and that you should know by now or you’d have to ask her. If you’re already doing everything and it’s not working its just what it is. Could be hormonal imbalance but ome people just have a lower sexdrive and you can’t do anything about it.
As far as the kids go, we adopted both of our kids. So her body to me is beautiful, she thinks she's put on weight but I've told her time and time again that she looks beautiful and I want her. But I do appreciate all the other suggestions you made as well!
Make her feel sexy. a lot of moms stop feeling sexy and then no longer want sex. Just gotta find that special thing that makes her feel sexy
I've been complimenting her more and telling her when she looks sexy and we've been doing date night once a month. I'd love to try and do it twice or three times a month
I have heard it said that a man needs sex to feel loved and a women needs to feel loved to want sex. Years ago we read “1001 ways to be romantic” together. We each had a different colored pen so we could star the things that we liked. I would then try to do the things that really spoke to her.
Is it that she does not want sex or that she does she not think about it or initiate sex? My wife has what has been termed “responsive desire” meaning that she does not often think about sex until we get started. Then it’s like, “Oh now I remember! I really want this.” Google it to learn more.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Usually communicating with your wife about her needs would be a pretty good option.
Communication is always important and don't forget to let her know how beautiful she is, take the time to turn her on. Kiss her neck & her throat, nibble on her ear abdcengage in some French kissing. Kiss her breasts pay some attention to her nipples, plant a trail of kisses down her belly to her groin and kiss her soft, sensitive inner thighs, give her some great oral if you do these things without rushing, taking the time to arouse her fully and concentrate on her pleasure without worrying about your own I guarantee she will get horny and you will get your pleasure as well.
After 15 years, a few times a month is pretty good. Join the club.
ahh its transferrence.
if you dont, you need to start doing housework and helping with the kid.
a womans sex drive starts all day: so if your hoping to do the horzontal limbo
thats what you have to do
you have to be prepared to keep her in the mood all day before you get the pay off at night.
Im not married, but have you tried to be more open. You know, foreplay, roleplay, kink and stuff. doesn't have to be weird, just do the things that you are comfortable with. Besides its about the little things.
That's something only she can answer you, obviously.
Engage more. You get hornier over the the more sex you have.
Buy her some toys. That could open up for new possibilities. Perhaps something that you can use in the shower?
Buy her lingerie?
Tell her what you like about her more and what you'd like to do with her.
Haha, I did get her the rose toy for Christmas, that was a hit. If you have other recommendations for the bathtub toys that would be welcomed. She loves taking baths
There are vibrators that work in the bath or shower. You could use that on her if you shower together.
And another question I have is, how much touching and or groping can a husband do before it gets annoying to her?
I told a guy on here how to do it, and he got upset.
Not me, I don't get offended
It wasn't you. He just took the advice the wrong way. If you want really crappy advice, then listen to all the people who told you to make her feel sexy and wanted. lol
Do they seriously think you didn't try that? lol
Bring in a wingman. You can tell her all day long how sexy she is, but she won't believe you. Why would she believe you? That's your job.
Prior to your wingman coming over to toss back a few brews with you, buy her this. 
Steve: How have you been?
Banana: Good, but I went out shopping today.
Steve: Did you get that cordless drill you were talking about?
Banana: No, I went out and bought a dress for Sandy.
Steve: I hate shopping for clothes.
Banana: Me too, but Sandy looks stunning in it.
Steve: Oh, wow. I always buy the wrong thing for my wife.
Banana: Sandy, go put on your dress and show Steve.
Sandy: I'm cooking, and I'm sure Steve doesn't care.
Steve: I'm actually looking for a Valentine's present for my wife.
Banana: Honey, just go put on the dress.
Sandy: Fine, but you take care of the hamburgers.
(Sandy comes back in the dress)
Banana: What do you think, Steve?
Steve: Holy crap! Where did you get it?
Banana: At Fred's department store
Steve: Do they have any more of those?
Banana: I'm not sure, but I think so.
Steve: I'm going to check it out tomorrow. I hope my wife looks as amazing in it as Sandy. That is such a hot dress.
Banana: I'm a genius when it comes to fashion.
You won't be getting much sleep that night.
Lol, I love it! Another solid idea
You have to make her feel desired and wanted.
And what are some good ways or ideas to do that
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