How can I make my girlfriend orgasm when I am fingering her??

The question pretty much speaks for itself... but in case you haven't guessed...im not having much luck making her orgasm. Thanks for the help
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  • I answered a similar question a few days ago... so I'll just copy/paste my answer here for you.

    Okay, first make sure your hands are clean and your nails are trimmed.

    No sharp edges, please!

    Start off slow. Make out, kiss, rub her body and breasts over her shirt. Make her want you! Then slowly move your hand to the inside of her shirt. Don't get in her pants yet! Caress her and tell her you love her, maybe kiss the hollow of her neck. Rub her lightly on the outside of her jeans, tease her. The whole point is to go slow, tease her, and make her wet (if you just jam your finger in from the start it will be painful and no fun for anyone).

    Keep making out, maybe she'll give you a little action too ;) Then put your hand on her stomach and run one or two of your fingers along the rim of her pants, and inside a little. Go back to making out and lightly touch her upper thigh and outside her jeans. Then run your thumb along the inside of her pants. She'll get antsy, which is good, she needs to be wet.

    Finally, when you think she's had enough teasing, unbutton and unzip her jeans. Take them off if you want, or just slip your hand in (taking the time to take her jeans all the way off may ruin the mood). Don't go underneath her panties yet. Run your finger along her lips (still outside of panties) and clit. Slip your finger inside her panties to check how wet she is. Keep her panties on though... makes it more exciting in my opinion.

    Go underneath her panties now, but don't touch her clit yet! Run your finger along her lips, tease around her vaginal opening, run your finger down her legs softly, go everywhere BUT her clit! Again, she'll get antsy and may try to move her body to follow your finger. Don't give in to her yet, tease her, build up tension! When she's about to fly off her rocker, find her clit and rub in GENTLE circles or tap it GENTLY. Everything you do has to be slow and gentle, it'll build up tension better and has less of a risk of her "losing" her orgasm.

    If she's wet and begging you still, find the opening to her vagina and SLOWLY slip ONE finger in, preferably your middle finger. Make a come hither motion with it. Whatever you do, don't thrust it in and out of her vagina... don't let your finger come out all the way and then immediately go back in. It will hurt her. While your finger is inside, use your thumb to stimulate her clit in the meantime. She may seem like she wants it harder... maybe she does. But in my experience I'm most apt to lose the building tension if the speed increases. So keep it steady and slow, there's no time limit. If she seems to like something, focus on doing it more.

    That's... all I can really say.

    Just remember, GO SLOW and EASY! Women don't get off in the same way that men do.

    • Now if only they would start showing this in p*rn, girls might actually come.

  • Once you`ve penetrated her with your finger, make a come here gesture with your finger and stimulate her g-spot while massaging her clit.

    • i like your simple answer.. LOl lthats what I was gonna say..

Most Helpful Guys

  • She has a G-spot and a clitoris. The clitoris is that little button-like piece of flesh at the top of the hood over the vagina. You can generally massage that in circular motions varying speed and direction as your partner prefers. As for the G-spot, it can be trickier, but generally you slide your index finger in (and another finger or two if she prefers to feel more "full") and massage and feel around until you find an area of flesh that feels a bit bumpy, at least an inch back from the opening of the vagina (if she was laying on her back, and you were using your right hand, your palm would be facing up) (Jesus this is like the right hand rule for fingering, any engineering/physics nerds out there?). Massage this area varying in intensity as your partner prefers. If you successfully make her come this way, expect her to squirt. Don't run away, it's not urine.

    Failing all else, give her your hand and tell her to show you what she needs.

  • Ok my American friend this is what you have to do. You have to put your two middle fingers inside of her. now about 2-3 inches inside of her you will feel a little kind of small rusty like pebble on the upper wall. You have to stimulate that while playing with a clitoral. Good Luck.

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