How can people hook up when sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another being?

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  • I guess you’d have to believe it’s the most intimate thing you can do. Age is a big factor, a teenage or early 20s guy is overridden by their sex drive. Booze is also a huge factor. It can lead you to believe it’s just sex and drunk morals and discipline are easily ignored. It’s becoming more common for young men to become less intimate. But I attribute most of that to the risk of metoo, title 9, and 0 rights in reproduction many going MGTOW or celibate until married after seeing its a rigged game. Those who don’t want a commitment. Lastly it’s never been a better time for young men to be single. Feminism has convinced women that they need a career and encourage casual sex and promiscuity like men and men are loving it. Frequent opportunities to get laid , no commitment required, no need to make lots of money now that women are strong and independent, and have thier own money. You may even get the opportunity for a free supper. Young men have always been able to have sex without being intimate but had to go the route of marriage to get it. Now, the milk is free, why buy the cow. Marriage is a destroyed institution that lost its origin in uniting a couple commit to have kids, now you can marry your dog, divorce and family court is so bias only a fool would marry so intimate free sex is really appealing. I’m afraid your shock of how people can just have sex without intimacy is a minority belief. It also is a milestone on histories “how to destroy your empire/culture” I fear it won’t end well.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I remember talking to a friend on this point he said sex is so much better in an intimate relationship compared to a casual hook ups. Sex can be just a fun primal contact sport and also the most intimate thing depending on how it's done and with whom (what they mean to you).

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because you’re young you haven’t figured out yet that there’s a difference between love and sex. Men can easily separate the two. Women however take longer to figure it out if they ever do.
    Sex is a biological need of human beings. The urge to have sex is so strong that we invented condoms and the pill etc. it allows us to have sex without getting pregnant. Although sex is wonderful, have sex when you’re in love is more fulfilling and a wonderful thing. I think if more women would satisfy their sexual needs they would make better choices with finding a mate.

  • Personally I have a similar view to @Glenn603 but another thing was I never thought of sex as the most intimate thing between two people it's just there where we use each other and hope to have a good time

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  • I think just like you and am always shocked when people say they do it casually...

  • Sometimes people don`t have a lot of choice than to hook up. I`ve never been in a relationship and not through my own choice and i`ve had loads of hook ups. If i hadn`t had sex through a hook up i still wouldn`t have even lost my virginity

    • See this is what I thought when I lost my v-card, plus back then and even somewhat now I have issues with getting close to guys and just never thought I'd be in a good relationship

  • Because they want to

  • They keep it in perspective. It feels good.

  • Because they do not see it is intimacy. The see it as contact sport.

  • Lust and sexual desire are also powerful drivers.
    In a consistent relationship, you also get emotional depth and bonding.

  • Because it isn't the highest form of intimacy for everyone. It's only natural to find someone attractive and want to do anything further with them.

    • What is a more higher form of intimacy than sex?

    • I'm not saying it isn't for most. Just not for everyone. Some people like cuddling or even a simple i love you.

  • This is something I think sometimes too

  • Because people get horny and they aren’t interested in making time for relationships.

  • Some people just don't want the emotional connection. They will eventually

    • I feel like you can't always control how you feel and how you can get attached

    • This is true

  • Sex is only emotionally intimate to women. Sex is just dopamine to men. Yes we can have better sex with someone we care about but we can have sex without it being anything but fun.

  • Because Hollyweird has been selling sex for ages and everyone bought into those ideas.

  • The real side-effects of contraceptives